Little Al: In my case girth gains came first then BPEL. Flaccid length gains took longer with me, and from I’ve read most others too. The problem with the flaccid penis is that everything effects its length. Heat, cold, mood and even trauma, especially trauma. When you beat your dick to death with aggressive PE or even rough sex the body wants to pull the little fellow inside the body to heal where it is warm and safe. The one thing that I have learned from this group and my own experince is we must never let this happen. Keep that flaccid dick extended while it heals. It is the only way to gain length. Allowing micro-tears to heal while Mr. Wiggly is retracted inside the body will actually shorten your flaccid length. There a lot of ways to do this, tons of threads on the subject, most of them mine, I think. But read, research and experiment, but most of all, take it slow and easy in the beginning.
Good Luck
BG