You are average in size and have nothing to be self-conscious about. Remember average means exactly that. Most men in the entire world have a similar size, presumably across thousands of generations of history. And people have always gotten together, had great sex, fallen in love and had children, and most of the male offspring of said couples also end up having average-sized penises. So don’t worry about being average. You’re in great company.
Here is a page where you can put in your measurements and find where you fall into the data set of many compiled studies on the subject across the world.
I can’t say that this data is 100% accurate, but seems like a reasonable ballpark reference to me.
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I hope seeing your size on this graph eases your concern.
I think it is perfectly normal to have some insecurity about our attractiveness. The irony is that the best way to overcome these insecurities is to get out in the world despite them, meet some people, have some successes and failures in terms of response from the ones we are interested in, and learn that the thing we think is a huge deal is really pretty unimportant. Once you’ve had a few partners and girlfriends you’ll feel reassured.
But you have to go out and have those experiences to learn this. My advice is to get started right away.
Oh, and lastly, remember, the girls you would like to meet are every bit as insecure as you. They are just self-conscious about other things. So don’t feel alone and definitely don’t let insecurity stop you.