Grower to shower ?

-My pre PE stats where also 2.5-3”, now im 4~5 ish but flaccid is hard to measure .

I definitely go commando now or boxers, as a teen and kid I always wore tighty whites so I wonder if that contributed to me being a grower.
Now my erections have always been strong and great, converting to more of a shower is more just me own personal mental state i guess.

How often to you wear the ring, Im reading mixed opinions on the benefits of a all day ring for PE. I have some silicone rings but havent tried them much yet.

-I also wish i discovered PE when i was younger, especially as a teen. Its tough being a grower because others dont understand it. I didn’t dare take my unit out in front of a girl completely flaccid, so there was always a scene of mental pressure.

Luckily It always worked when I needed it to besides one time of me being to drunk.

I’m wondering if anyone has figured out how to gain erect length in a way that is more grower than shower, as others have said over time I’ve gone from 3.5 to 4.5-5 flaccid with relatively small erect gain from manual+hanging. Curious if there might be a different vector of growth (perhaps just tied to EQ gains some experience starting and quickly capped).