Help me please someone sniff sniff

Hi there everyone. Can anyone help me and point me in the direction of the best way to get girth gains. I’m 6.5L but only pencil 4inch girth. I can pull girls no problem but when it comes to sex I’m nervous as hell as most girls are a disaster with my thin penis.

I pulled a girl I’ve liked for a while last night. It was only a 1 night stand as she’s seeing someone. Sex was ok and I could feel it more than 50% of the time (and she’s had a kid) She nearly came as well but I was just a little quicker lol. So I felt good about myself today and stuff. Then I told my m8 who knows this girl. He said that when he was at a caravan park with his girlfriend he had bumped into the girl I had last night. And as conversation went on, it led to be about me (I slept with this girl a while ago but was a disaster) My mate asked her if she’d go with me again and she pulled her pinkie out and started to say that I had a small penis. A few hours of feeling good about myself to this. It’s really hurt me and I can’t get in contact with the girl to pull her up about it. It will be embarrassing but it needs to be said. If she thought that then why did she come to my house with a bottle of wine and then asked me to massage her?? I don’t understand and I’m hurt. I’m chicken hearted at the best of times and this is just tearing my head up.

I’m gonna stop smoking and give this a real bash as I want to meet someone and fall in love again. My ex of four and half years destroyed any self esteem I had with slaggings about my penis. And cheating on me. She actually cheated on me 1 night, came home and started to have sex with me as soon as she got in. I couldn’t feel her at all. The girl f**ked my head up big time (first love). I don’t want a bigger penis so I can go about like the rest of the lads and have sex with as many girls as possible. I just want to please the girl I’m with and if it doesn’t work out then just keep looking.

I’m 24 and smoking (plan to stop in a week or so, is gonna take a few weeks to stop) will this affect me as well? I’m sorry I’ve just came out and blurted all this stuff. But it’s how it is and how it’s happened. I think you all know how difficult it is speaking about this stuff with people and I feel a lot more comfortable writing about it. I ain’t too concerned about length the now but after I start showing gains in girth then I’m interested.

6.5 L <—- erect
4.0 G <—- erect
3.5 L <—- soft
3.0 G <—- erect

The quickest temporary gain will be with a penis pump. After that, one of those penis sleeves would work. Definitely quit the smoking it is keeping you from total size. You shouldn’t really refer to it as pencil as it might be offensive to others. I also have never used a 4 inch girth pencil in my life hah! A girl cheating on you doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with your penis size. She might have just been turned on that she was cheating and even having sex with you right after. Some guys do that too.

Vaginal orgasm doesn’t happen for every woman. First rule is to always give her an orgasm before you start intercourse. Let her masturbate, toys, and/or you give oral. There are also other techniques. The Cul de Sac orgasm. The G spot orgasm.

For girth just do jelqing, pumping, clamping and even hanging. Do it all why stop at any one excercise?

Lastly some girls will be totally fine with your girth. Some girls don’t know what a girthy penis feels like and try to find out by sleeping around. They really should just try out the toys first. There are people with less girth, even less than 3.0. If you want to learn to accept some of your shortcomings, check out https://www.measurection.com .

Good Luck.

I know lots of guys who have done this. It’s not necessarily an insult to you. It’s only personal if you make it be.

Siam is absolutely correct. The importance of foreplay can’t be overstated. Plus, if you have a genuine interest in sex (or pleasing whoever you’re with), they’re good things to know. It also goes along ways in other areas too.

And if all else fails, check in with Big Girtha and his girth gains. He came from a bit more than where you’re starting and built a Weapon of Miss Destruction.

Are you doing your PE exercises? Have you given this stuff a go? If you haven’t really tried PE for at least three months to a year, then I can’t feel sympathy as you don’t know what will happen if you give this stuff a go.

And stop fucking smoking. Or not. But don’t tell us how you will quit next week.

Glee and girth to you.

P.S.- Do yourself a favour and avoid internet/ personal slang while posting at Thunder’s

Start with the threads stuck to the top of the newbie forum. We do have specific girth exercises but they assume months of experience and conditioning so you won’t break your penis. Jelqing, the foundation of newbie PE, is both an all around healthy penis exercise and a girth exercise so you are good to go on that count. Can we assume if you “accidentally” gained 1/2 an inch of length while looking for girth you wouldn’t mind? ;)

Smoking is not good for your circulation and your unit depends on circulation to plump up and get hard. Stopping smoking will definitely help your penile health and give you better results from PEing.

Your girth is below average but you length is above average. No biggie, now that you have this place both of those dimensions are subject to change if you so choose. Do not just jump into advanced girth specific exercises. I know it is tempting but hurting yourself will cost much more time in the long run than doing this “smart.”

Thankyou for your responses and I’m sorry about telling you’s if I’ll quit smoking or not. It’s my loss if I don’t.

I do realise the importance of foreplay and I love giving it. But as I’m paranoid about my size (due to having sex sometimes and not feeling it or little feeling) I tend to only get into situations when I’m drunk. Usually one night stands, and girls are a little uncomfortable about going down on them most times coz we just met and they just want sex. I want to be able to please them totally. I used to have great sex with my ex at the start of the relationship and I do tend to a womens needs. But I wish for nothing more than the whole thing. A 4inch girth is hell for me and it makes me feel inadequate.

I will start the jelques and gradually build up to the advanced exercises instead of thinking that if I do the more advanced ones I’ll gain quicker (which I probably would have done). Is it possible to not be able to gain at all in girth?

Before finding this place. I thought I was stuck with what I’ve got. Thunderplace has saved my ass from being miserable all my days thankyou ;)