Okay guys, nevermind. I don’t get any performance anxiety now.. Must have just been from the first time. Last night we were basically dry humping (with underwear on) and it’s such a tease. Since we’ve only been seeing eachother for 9 days now we decided to wait until finals are done in two weeks before we go all the way. But I had a great erection last night still could be better ;) . Anyhow, I did make her orgasm with my finger and she said no guy has ever done that to her - I realized some things from what I’ve been reading..
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I took this from askmen.com cause I thought it helped me: “Take the pressure off of yourself; remember it takes two to tango. Don’t rush into having sex, rather take the time to appreciate the woman that you have before your eyes. She’s yours for the taking and if you would simply focus all of your attention on her, you’re nervousness might slowly dissipate. Keep in mind that performance anxiety affects almost everyone, from the beginner to the most seasoned professional; you’re not a freak and you’re definitely not alone. Keep telling yourself that you are the man; always stay positive and know that you have complete control over your body. Enforce that control.
As well, communicate with your significant other, or better yet, spend the evening talking about all the dirty deeds you imagine doing to one another. It’ll take your mind off your temporary drawback, and may even encourage the sleeping giant to awaken and take his woman, and make love with her like never before.
The power of positive thinking can help you accomplish anything, and if you believe that you will have great sex, you will. And believe it or not, after the first time you overcome this anxiety, you will have the confidence to turn your self-fulfilling prophecy into something positive.
With patience, a clear mind, and a comfortable relationship with a great woman, you’ll be able to free yourself of this vicious cycle and engage in that kick-butt sex you always knew you were destined for.
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