Originally Posted by redbear52
There is no doubt that there are some ladies out there that can accommodate some enormous penises, so you would have to be really big to be too big for all women. But I am also of the opinion, based on my experiences with prior lovers, and what I have been told by women (not men), that 8 inches of length and 6 or more inches of girth is too generous to be ideal for a significant percentage of women.When I had about 7 inches of insertable length and about 5.75” of maximal girth, I was a little bigger than ideal for vaginal sex with a few women. Granted, they were in the minority, and I wasn’t too big to have sex with them, but for two of them I went too deep when we tried doggy style, and for two others they occasionally got sore after sex, and sometimes had superficial vaginal skin tears that meant no sex for a few days. In my book, if your dick size results in you getting laid less, rather than more often with the woman of your choice, or prevents you from using your favorite position, you are too big. With about 7 inches of insertable length I would bottom out in about half of the female partners I have had sex with, at least in those positions that allowed close pelvic contact, so my guess is that average vaginal depth in fully aroused women is somewhere in the 7 - 7.5” range. Obviously, some women will be able to allow full penetration of somewhat longer cocks, but I believe that is because they are either unusually deep and/or tolerate a degree of vaginal stretching
I agree with everything you have said and my limited experience and multiple conversations with women about size matches your comments. I do have some questions; With the girls you were with that had trouble did they have children delivered vaginally? What was the height, weight, and age of these women?
At 6.5NBP X 5.4MSEG, occasionally long sessions with the one girl I had sex with ended up with her asking “are you done yet” because it was becoming uncomfortable yet, this was even after she had an orgasm and was dripping wet. She was 18, 5’4” and 110lbs with no children. She also commented without me initiating it that I was big, huge, large, ect.
Honestly I think 7”NBP X 5.75 MSEG is a good goal and would be ideal for the most amount of women, in most situations, most of the time, on average. This allows for almost any position while penetrating deeply in most positions. At this length you are also not likely to fall out with fast thrusting when you’re in the heat of things. That girth allows for blow jobs to still occur and spreads the vagina open enough to give a good stretch, yet is small enough for regular sex with most women. Although with women that haven’t had children or who are smaller 5.75 MSEG may be on the larger side. Again just my opinion.
With that said there is no perfect size even for one woman. One woman’s ideal size is different for different situations, different moods, different times of her cycle, different positions, ect. This is just one woman, not to mention all women.
A vagina is meant to make a penis ejaculate and have an orgasm, that is it’s one and only purpose. A penis’s purpose is to deliver sperm, not to specifically make a woman orgasm. This fact seems to have some interesting implications.