Originally Posted by knopfler
well, thanks a lot tntjockey for your help, I really appreciate it. My height is 6 foot . I’m currently dating a girl, we have been a couple since october. I like her a lot. The first time we made love I could make her orgasm but a month later we had sex two times and I couldn’t make her orgasm, this started to make me feel insecure about my sexual performance. I asked her if she could orgasm with her ex and she told me that her ex was her first and she told me that the first times she didn’t like sex because it was painful but then she started to like it. She told me that her ex could always make her orgasm. This comment from her made me feel more insecure about me. Today we had sex just one time. She seemed to enjoy it but she didn’t orgasmed, I cummed 3 minutes after penetrating her and my dick wasn’t 100 percent erect. When I fuck her my dick is never 100 percent erect. I have to say I masturate a lot. What can I do to make her orgasm?, last more in bed and get harder erections. thanks a lot from your help, really appreciate it
Clear your mind. One thing I tell all of you that ask there girl friends of their Ex’s, don’t ask, the answer will always fuck you up, so DON’T ASK!
that is her past and she is with you now, let it go and let her let it go as well. She is with you for a reason, because she wants to be with
you and not her ex. Ex’s are Ex’s for a reason, so let your and her past go. You are starting out clean and free of the past so leave it, why taint it.
Those kind of questions to your partner will almost always bring out insecurities. I also wonder if women tell you how much better it was with
the ex just to have an edge on guys. Women never ask a guy if their ex’x had bigger tits or had a tighter vagina, you know why, they don’t care.
We as males have it ass backwards. Use the head on your shoulders and not the head on your dick, I assure you, you will get the girl to the big O (orgasm).
It has nothing to do with your cock or the size, but how you approach this. Relax and stop competing with somebody that is in your partners past, after all, she is with you and not him.
You came 3 times after penetrating her, Hmm! Now that would be good for me, now I’m insecure, I only cum once and I become a dead door nail. Just have fun with no worries.
Your insecurity will not make her orgasm, but your confidence and securities will. Your during sex you can send negative vibes. Be the guy that she met, don’t worry if you make her cum (orgasm)
just make things comfortable for the both of you. Things will be good from there. Give it a shot.