How I went from 5.5 to 7inch and why it hasn't made me any happier

Insecurities are never bound to penis size, trust me, at least not in the first place. It is just to materialize the insecurity issue upon a part of the body. It’s like women compare breast size with each other, so do we with our sizes. I had some issues with being to big (yes, it’s true) and thought I would get names that would make every woman want to sleep with me, and not love me. Sounds like a dream right? But I got really paranoid about it. But it had a more deeper perspective, due to insecurities in my childhood (And yes, I’ve been to a shrink and talked about it)

So why do I do PE now? It is sort of a revenge at my thoughts I had but also the idea of improving myself. I do know though, that sex isn’t all about size either. If you aren’t tender and good at make the woman feel good, PE is useless. But combined, you are Tom Jones.

Why settle for a Ford KA(although it is a nice car, really), if you work for a hour a day in 2 years to get a Ferrari Lamborghini with gas and stuff included?

I think that guys go through stages with their gains. If you start out on the small side, the initial goal is to simply become average. One doesn’t want to feel sub-par, and one especially doesn’t want to feel humiliated in the locker room.

But once average is attained, a man’s ambitions turn. Not feeling ashamed is no longer an adequate goal. Now one wants to be better than others, to be impressive and to elicit favorable remarks.

Once that level is achieved, a man might wish to become the biggest his woman (or any woman he is likely to have sex with) has ever had. Favorable remarks are not enough; he wants to elicit gasps.

And so it goes.

Great first post, by the way. I imagine it was very exhilerating to think that you were the very first to discover “the craft.”

IMO, 1.5” is a stupendous gain. I’m at about 1/2 that, and I’ve been at this for 18 months or so.

Long post or long dick?

Too bad there’s not a clamping exercise to get a bigger self-confidence, eh? After all, that’s what its about.

The post? Or the penis? ;)

I’m with Xeno- I saved this one to my favorites folder so that on the dark days I can remind myself of all said here.

Chad, welcome aboard and keeping on PEing- we’re all pulling [ourselves] for you!

Girth and glee.

Kawaihae, bastard, got there when I had my back turned!

That’s what I get for posting from the first page.

Great post. Deep thoughts on why we do PE. Kinda like striking it rich. The money won’t make you happy if there is a underlying thing that makes you unhappy.

You have come a long way my man. If your looking for length maybe the redi hanger is better for uncut. I don’t know. I am a hanger but I’m cut.

Good luck and welcome to the club this place is cool and the guys are here to help.

Cool, I am new and I read everything you wrote it was interesting, maybe we as men are just never satisfied even when we make a lot of progress

Your probably all atheists, and I’m a christian, but.. In the bible it says that only God satisfies enough, otherwise it’s quite clear that you’re going to keep wanting more and NEVER have enough.

Leviticus 26:26
“When I cut off your supply of bread, ten women will be able to bake your bread in one oven, and they will dole out the bread by weight. You will eat, but you will not be satisfied.”

Ezekiel 16:28
“You played the whore also with the Assyrians, because you were not satisfied; yes, you played the whore with them, and still you were not satisfied. “

If you don’t believe in God, you don’t believe in hope. As chad66 points out clearly, we will always want more and more, why wouldn’t we? God promises to give us more than we can desire.

Matthew 5:6
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied. “

Jeremiah 31:14
“I will feast the soul of the priests with abundance,and my people shall be satisfied with my goodness,declares the LORD.”

I personally have experienced dissatisfaction, that’s why I’m here of course. God is good, and I pray that he would continue to convict me for my own good.

Luke 6:21
“Blessed are you who are hungry now, for you shall be satisfied.’Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh. ‘”

I’m sure we have all had moments when we felt like we just didn’t have enough, and some of us still do. Us as humans desire to be satisfied! We want satisfaction! We are crazy about getting it, even to the point of PE! Why can’t we just be normal and relaxed about ourselves? The answer is we can’t on our own, we need someone bigger than ourselves. The one who created and knows each of us. We will be satisfied by him, do you believe this. I do! He promises to forgive us of our sins, if we repent. He promises freedom of sin. I’m sure some of you will cast me out of your minds, but others who God has elected, will do better.

Matthew 22:14
“For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

Matthew 24:31
“And he will send his angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather his elect from the four winds, from one end of the heavens to the other.”

Inferno

If your second post is anything like your first, there will be some casting out going on, rest assured.

Does that mean you disagree with me, specifically about satisfaction?

Inferno

Pretty same beginning here.
A lot of people thing of me as a sort of latin lover because I look (this is what my mom and what they say) nice and I have (always them telling it) some charming, the problem is that I’m far away from being one, I’m not the self confident guy I look like, I’m shy and, I think, the size issue also affects my self esteem.
I had and I still have chances to meet other girls/women (I’ve a stable relations since many years) but I’m always scared by the penis issue, I know that mine is average (about 6 1/2 x 5 1/3) and with my girlfriend it works perfect but I always fear the relation of my penis toward my general appearance.
I’ve recently been with a girl who didn’t complain about being with me, she said it was nice, one of the nicest times in her life bla bla bla, it could be true but was maybe because of the situation, the place, the mood etc etc fact is that the next time I’ve been with her and in a deeper confidence she told me about her previous partners and she spoke about one who was very well endowed but she said she didn’t enjoy as with me because he wanted just his pleasure, not hers while my goal is always to satisfy the girl first. The fact is that the last time we met I was always thinking at this, I was tired from a long trip, not sleeping and finally those weren’t my best performances.
Since then I lost a lot of confidence and, maybe because I’m still sleeping very little, still stressed (more than before) but I have no any sex behavior (is this correct? Apologize me but I’m italian), even if I watch at a porn movie with the girls I like most erections come but they don’t last a lot. I think and I hope that time and rest will fix this but when I look at myself in the mirror I always make comparisons and my average one looks always small even if it is said to be well working for my partners.
So, until this point the story is, more or less, same as the beginner of the thread, the difference is that I’d like to gain something like he did but I’ve not the drive to do it and I appreciate his effort and hope that it’s inspirational for me and for everyone but with the advice that a bigger one will not make an happier one, right?

Thanks man

It means, lighten up on the sermons.

Hmm..

This thread has taken a weird direction and I’d rather God was kept out of it. However, if God wants to get involved and magic me an 8X6 then he’s most welcome.

I’m not trying to disrespect anyone’s faith but as soon as you allow religious or political leanings, this whole thing will descend into chaos.

Yes, the Chaos Forums are down at the bottom of the list.

Great post man. Something I’d suggest is to also augment your emotional/psychological side- do something that makes you scared, something to confront your fears. Walk right up to a hot chick and ask her out. Role play yourself some new facets of personality to go along with your new and improved dick. Take a class, etc.etc.etc. In addition to PE I’ve begun working out again, doing yoga on Saturdays, and I’m going to take a swing dancing class with my lady in a couple weeks. Who knows what I’ll be happiest about in five months, but one thing *is* for sure- if I stick to the regimen I’ve got outlined for myself I’m pretty much guaranteed to be in a better place than where I was when I started out with this.

There’s a fine line between a “positive activity” and an obsession, by doing *other things* you can ward off the PE tunnel vision- IMO.

and thunder: <<<If your second post is anything like your first, there will be some casting out going on, rest assured>>>

Hallelujah! Praise be! ***applause*** If the fundamentalists hijack this place (Thunders) then I’m moving to Guam (would that help?) amen.