How You Use It

Are you of average size & been with plenty of girls? Have you found that it’s how you use it that matters to most girls?

Thanks!
BiffyStiffy

I’m 7”(bp)/6.5”(nbp) x 4.75 which I would consider average but I know my girl thinks is small. If I just stick it in and f*ck like a 14 year old it does absolutely nothing to her and she seems like she doesn’t even feel it. If, on the other hand, I give her lots of foreplay and touch her and kiss her and generally “use it better,” she can have multiple orgasms.

So, to answer your question: Yes. Size matters AND how you use it matters.

bunbuster

Yeah, a great combination of both, I think if the dick is small it must be very thick to be loved by a gal, I have always thought 8.5” is enough for everyone… size does matter, but if you don’t know how to use it properly it would end in just a repetition with no innovation in sex >.>

c-ya

and IMO what has counted more than anything was the ‘feeling’ - you know, when you just hit it off with somebody, you’re both on the same wavelength and there’s a bit of telepathy going on. From time to time I frequent clubs where ‘professional’ girls work, and even in those cases I do not engage anybody’s services if we do not ‘click’, except if the bird is an absolute stunner.

If a girl is really concerned about size she can just do kegals herself & get toned couldn’t she? Much easier for girls to do this than it is for us guys to grow our penises. Aren’t girls who haven’t had sex much, pretty tight?Some women who have given birth do kegels to shrink their uterus’s to normal size. Maybe if girls do kegels they can almost get ‘virgin tight’ again.

BiffyStiffy

I mean they shrink/tighten/tone their vaginas.

What chance do we have once they’ve had several babies & they don’t do kegals?!

BiffyStiffy

I would have to say how you use it.

I have had like a 5 and he more than made up in forplay. Put a teaser ring on him and everythings gonna be ok. ;)

OK all teasing aside. He was not bad. He knew how to please and worked at pleasing.

I would say good size is 6.5 - 8 length. I am a “grinder”. (blush) OK, so it is my favorite thing to do. Main reason I have such strong orgasm this way, rather than oral. But don’t get me wrong, I do like oral :p What girl doesn’t.

OK back to post. HOW YOU USE IT. ;)

Yea I too figure it would be how you use it. Although I find my member to be small the thickness that comes along with it is a plus. But i have found that experimenting with fourplay and teasing with the penis is a lot more useful than just sticking it in.

But a lil bit more size wouldnt hurt

Laterz

I think more women would answer yes to “Does girth matter?” than “Does size matter?”

For some reason people seem to equate “size” to mean “length.”

JMHO

Perhaps so, but as I’m doing PE for ME, what I want is a LONGER schlong - aren’t I a selfish bastard!! :chuckle

Really good point.

Yeah. Methinks that it’s the proportion of size to length that makes a tool a visual stunner (and internal stunner as well). It’s like Bib said - length is just a means to deliver the girth.

-BH