I am not confident

Hello I have never had sex because I am not confident of my size 4-5inches hard 4-5 around. I was just wondering if anyone has done anything sexual with this size.

I have with a 5.5 x 4-4.5 EG (ms) and I managed to perform quite well. Confidence is an odd thing: you might find that you perform amazingly and gain confidence, or find that you don’t perform well only BECAUSE you were unconfident.

I have one friend whose dick is very similar to my starting measurements and he seems to get not only a lot of action, but has NEVER had an issue with size. He wins them over with his comic personality and makes up for size with technique and tenacity (in terms of doing it again and again…). Another friend, once told me, "I’ve got a small dick, but I get alot of girls." Clearly isn’t a problem for him either.

My personal opinion is: let whatever happens, happen. Don’t actively try to avoid intimacy. As long as you stick with a PE routine this won’t be a long-term issue. As disgustingly cliched as it may be, "size really isn’t everything". Try to become good at all the other stuff; learn how to control your erection and ejaculation. There’s a few threads on Thunder’s that might help.

Here’s one to start you off:
Thanks Thunder’s - Tantric is cool!

Here’s a thread for 4 inchers which you might find helpful:
4 inchers

I’m not saying that size will never be an issue, but you might find that you can still enjoy yourself with out a massive member. Persevere with PEing and this will be a thing of the past, but don’t miss out any opportunities for love (or fun) along the way.

I made two kids with a 4.8”NBPEL by 4.9” MSEG, and really enjoyed sex for 30+ years at that size.
More size does give you a lot more confidents over all. I have gained nearly 1.5” in length, and .4” in girth, nothing else has changed in my life, other than getting older by the minute, and over the past 2 months, I have been told how good I look more times then in the past 10 years combined. I carry myself like I have a reason to be here, and it shows.

With this said, do something about your lack of size, but don’t let it stop you from enjoying sex with someone you care about.

Hear hear! I also made 2 kids with a NBPEL of 4.5” and EG of 4.75”. Trust me, you can definitely do “something sexual”! And as suggested above, you can even be very good at it, it just takes knowledge and practice. And the practice is so much fun!

Dude.. Most women have trouble having orgasms during sex without additional stimulation. Don’t let your size stop you from having sex. Do the oral thing and make her cum three times before you even put it in her. I don’t know of any lesbians with big dicks, but some women are really into lesbian sex. If you’re simply going to meet a woman and use her for sex, never to see her again, what difference does it make if you’ve got a small dick? And if you meet a woman who you want to have a relationship with, by the time you get around to sex, the size of your pecker won’t be that important to her. Just try to make her happy with your tongue. THAT is critical. If you don’t know how to perform oral sex on a woman, you need to learn. It’s almost all about the clitoris, so learn where it is, and concentrate on it. If you watch most women use a dildo, they don’t use it by sliding it inside of them, they rub it against their clit and let the vibrations do the work. You need to do that with your tongue.

Well put sam!

Carlos, If you can make a womans toes curl and her eyes roll in the back of her head from oral sex, she wont care one bit about your dick size. For most woman, a orgasm induced orally is far more intense then one achieved through intercourse. Like Sam said, most woman out there cant have or have a real hard time achieving an orgasm through intercourse.

When I first started dating my girlfriend a long time ago (who is now my wife of 9 years), I gave her oral sex (my favorite thing to do!) and she about hit the ceiling. After it was over she said ‘HOLY SHIT, where did you learn to do that?’ I acted all modest and just shrugged my shoulders like it was no big deal. From that point on she always told me she has never cum so hard or had better sex in her life with anyone previous. I believe her cause she about jumps off the bed when she hits the big ‘O’ (apparently the ex-boy friends didn’t know what the hell they were doing in the oral dept)

My point is, I’m not the largest she’s ever been with, although I hope to get to that point some day through PE, but in the meantime I always make sure I never leave her unsatisfied. Follow that rule of thumb Carlos and you will have more women eating out of your hands then you know what to do with! You think woman talk about dick size, but more women would be apt to talk about a guy that knows what he’s doing in bed!

A small smart dick is better then a big dumb dick!!! ;)

Fitman

I am good at oral and Fingering lots of girls say I am the best they have had. I guess this is because I am overcompensating

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He works for them. The site sucks, it’s a total rip off. Stay away everyone!

I think some guys focus to much on size when think about pleasuring a woman, size it’s important, but it’s just ONE thing, there are a lot other things that woman like instead of being fucked by a big dick. G spot it’s one thing.

I can’t bring myself to show a girl it is just because I know them so well and if they see it everyone would soon hear about it. And it would mess up any friendships I have

What the hell kind of bitches are you hooking up with that would do that? A respectable girl won’t gossip about your penis, regardless of size. Find a good woman, one who you’re totally comfortable with. Penis size won’t even enter your mind then.

Start PEing now, if you haven’t already. :thumbs:

Now that it’s a word of wisdom.