I need help getting aroused

Excellent advice! :thumbs:

Yes, I agree, I still do PE for myself, just that if it comes to the sex point soon with her I don’t feel ready. I still feel insecure about taking that step. Pe gives me some confidence now but I know that ‘m still at the start and am small. I fear rejection. I am a social anxiety case. I’m not a virgin but it’s hard with every new girl.

You are not weak, you don’t have to be insecure, as the others have said - do it for yourself.

Incredible advice ss4: it is a long term goal - don’t do PE to increase your size for now, it takes a long time - do it for the future.
I could’ve quoted you ss4, but this is how I understand what you said. Sorry if I got it wrong :)

PE improves you, could take years, could see results in 2 months. You need to start finding things that are good about you instead of seeing what could be better. Good news is that the guys on the smaller end of the penis scale tend to get gains quicker - but that doesn’t mean go overboard and end up damaging yourself. This site is full with great newbie routines, stick to one - get happy and try to find the finer things in life. No point having a big dick if you can’t be comfortable around women, I know it would help to feel like “the man”, but it can still be done by us smaller guys.

Take care man.

Listen to Winston, he is a God somewhere, we just don’t know it.

I love you all.
I’ll be better when I sober up, I promise.
I found the stash of free beer and drove off with the truck.

I am basically “No Confidence Man” right now.
Hopefully all this PE will help some.
I do feel more confident getting dressed at work since I started PEing,
The feeling is nice.

toms,

> I still feel insecure about taking that step. Pe gives me some confidence now but I know that ‘m still at the start and am small. I fear rejection.<

I know what you mean toms because I’ve been through the whole process and come out of it the other end. Next time you feel this, remember that I am with you, and you will get past it just like I did.

>I am a social anxiety case. I’m not a virgin but it’s hard with every new girl.

Life is hard, work harder. That’s what makes it good, because if it wasn’t hard then it wouldn’t be as much fun to have things. Because everyone would have them.

Keep the focus of your thoughts on what it will be like when you have made your gains, and also on the negative aspects of not becoming comfortable with yourself before then…think of the experiences you will miss and the women that won’t get to pleasure you if you DON’T get over it. :)

You are too worked up to enjoy the moment. Kind of like the time I got my first blow job I was too worked up and ahh poor woman was down there for like 20 minutes before she said something. I couldn’t cum because I couldn’t relax and enjoy it so it was basically like she might as well just not have even done it. If you feel nervous, anxious, just take a few deep breaths and think about the nutty professor standing up saying , “YES, I, CAN!” .. Lol, no but seriously, think about it, it will give you confidence and make you laugh a little (of course don’t laugh during sex, unless you hit the wrong hole by accident, then laugh your head off).

Hah, good advice. The first time I had sex I was very anxious and actually went for almost an hour without cumming. Then we took a break and went again and it shot off pretty quick. Maybe five minutes. I don’t agree with medication but it’s hard stopping illogical thinking.

Did someone say “Free Beer”?

Purchase some “horny goat weed”, and enjoy :) . I had the same problem several times by the way. Just never bother thinking about having it aroused too much and it will rise up :D

For me it started to happen the older I got.