I never thought I was "big"

I really never thought I was big until I’ve been reading here. I’ve never had complaints other than “slow down” and I just thought that was that I was really not giving her enough time to lube up and get ready. I did have one of my old girlfriends say “you’re big” the first time she saw me but I thought she was just trying to be encouraging. My only comparison was to porn and we all know they are pretty much “monsters” in size.

Once my curiosity got the best of me I started looking for “average penis” and found that “average” is smaller than I am by a little but then I noticed that average thickness was quite a bit smaller than I am. My current GF used to tell me to slow down a bit because she needed to relax, now I understand why. She’s gotten used to me and we really have great sex but I just have to remember to go at her speed and not mine. She loves on top (cowboy I think it’s called) because she can control the speed a bit better. I think I bottom out just a bit before she does because I can feel myself bending just a bit when she’s all the way down. It must not hurt her because she tries to get as much in as she can and it feels great even though I’m a bit sore afterwards, if she does it too much I blow my load and we have to pause for a while until I recover. I haven’t done any PE but it might be interesting to see how much bigger I can get.

My size, if I understand the terms, is
Girth at base is 6 1/4, middle is 6 inches
NBP (not bone pressed) 6 to 6 1/2 inches depending on how hard I am
BPEL is 7 1/4 to 7 1/2 inches depending on how hard I am
Soft varies a lot so in length I didn’t bother, girth is about 5 inches when soft

John

Just go for length man. That’s some awesome girth I wish i was atleast between where I am at at 5.25 and where you’re at at 6. I’d be a very happer camper at 5.6

You’re big in length and huge in girth. Do you really need to be here? While I’m all for PE, I’m also for having realistic goals and a penis that won’t send women running for the hills.

Congratulations on your size, man.

Why such a long time for the first post bubba?

Amen to that.

Anyways, that is some awesome girth and I’m jealous. Focus on length.

Yea, I’ve lost a bunch of weight, but unfortunately I loose it last in my midsection. I’ll get to 7” nbp, but it’s taking freaking forever.

Exactly!

I’m just roughly 7 BPEL x 5.5 EG (13 FBPL x 5 FG), not very large, and almost every girl I’ve met told me I was long and thick. Many have said “perfect”. Just 2: a hooker I fuck at 17 y.o. and never achieved a good erection and my first wife, who had not previous experience and was a bitch, told me I was small. A lover I had 14 years ago used to tell me I was normal, she was married (divorcing) and said to me her husband was huge, about 4 inches more than me, but she didn’t like to fuck him because it hurt too much. She said I was “perfect” for her.

Curiously, like you, I always thought I was small, no matter what all the ladies told me. I understood I was rather on the big side when I joined Thunder’s and read statistics.

Apparently I signed up years ago and forgot about it. I tried to register and found that my name had been taken. I tried a couple of my password and one worked.

John

Thanks all for the nice words. I’m just glad that my warped idea of “big” caused by porn is wrong.

If you were in porn bubbahead1234, you’d be warping other people’s perception of “big”!

Congrats. Like others said, I would just go for length. Hanging is a great route.

I’m kind of in a similar boat - as a teenage virgin I knew I was bigger than average, but it wasn’t until a girl actually turned me down for sex because I was too big for her that I realized how much bigger than average I was. The first girl I slept with also a virgin, so she didn’t say much about my size because she didn’t have much to compare it to. (This was 13 years ago, before the average British teenager had been watching hardcore porn since the age of 12.)

Again, I was a member here for a few years before making my first post. I originally joined because you have to be a member to use the Advanced Search function, which is far more useful than vanilla Search. It took that long before I got over the idea that actually contributing to a penis enlargement forum was too weird! :)