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What Sparkyx said. I would only add that it might help to take the pressure off yourself to have an orgasm. Try taking a “non-goal oriented approach” to lovemaking. Just enjoy the moment and focus on you wife’s pleasure, and things will probably work themselves out.

Hope this helps.

I read something about studies using a special diet low in the amino acid tryptophan, in order to reduce serotonin levels. I don’t know what kind of diet that is or how practical it would be to do something like that.

I know this won’t help to cure your problem, but you might want to consider faking orgasms, for your wife’s benefit, until you figure out a solution.

Also, are you just having missionary-position sex, for religious reasons? If so, I would encourage you to explore different positions. Not sure if it’s relevant or not, but figured I’d throw it out there.

Hey mate try Aneros it might help.

Oh, no. Now that we are married, all sex is good sex. :)

Even anal?

I’ll tell you the truth when I got married at first I would be embarrased to get naked infront of my wife. But after a few days of sleeping together we got used to eachother and only then I got naked infront of her and got hard after a few min. Also their were times at first having sex that I enjaculated before I acualli had inturcurse. So that was a little imbarrasing. But I got over that.I hope that helps.