Ideal Penis Size Studies

Do you have a specific routine in mind?

Yes, clamping works very effectively

I would use extender 2 months, 8-12 hours at 600-700 grams, preferably a vacuum extender because are more comfortable.

Then after having prepared some slight longitudinal lengthening of the tunica, I would bring brief clamping campaigns like 1 day on/1 day off, for a 1-2 weeks, then continue extending another month without clamping.

These clamping sessions would be 2 minute on, 2 minute off, or so, clamping while 80-90% erection and gently pushing forward the clamp, to increase pressure a bit. Using 2 clamps together helped me reach the necessary expansion/tension feeling that you need to feel. It´s not painful, but pressure should borderline the pleasurable-uncomfortable threshold. If you do 40-50 min, you will start to see some fluid build up and it´s time to stop. Don’t push edema forward.
You should be able to measure a thickening as a single clamp session advances, use metric tape to monitor this. You will notice a 0,25-0.75 inch increase in girth. As said, stop when that thickening start to look edematous.

You will see after these short girth campaigns, that when your penis is restored to zero edema, you will retain a marginal thickness. This is in my experience close to permanent but you will continue extending without clamping for a while to let things back to normal girth-wise while not letting the longitudinal fibers rest. Keep extending.

Then repeat.

I gained 0.5-1 millimetre girth / clamping session with this techniques. I mean I gained 12 millimetres or so, and I don´t think I have done 20 clamp session in total.
Girth only grow while I clamp, but I do not clamp much. However the extender work is intensive which I think is key here, or it was for me at least.

Best luck

Very detailed; just what I was looking for. Thank you!

P.s. I’m afraid of losing potency/ injuring my Dick. Has anyone lost the ability to gain and KEEP an erection doing the extender routine?

Do you fap too much? The thing about jelqing, or faping, is that you have to keep up with some arousal stimulation to have blood in the penis. Try to take a week rest with PE, no fap, no sex. It should make your erections strong again.

About ideal penis size, for sure every woman has a range that she consider ideal, but fucking with ideal penis size is like fucking with ideal body shape girl. Sometimes in our lives we have those dates or loves that we never forget, but it didnt mean that we don’t feel pleasure and fun with the normal women that are not super hot.

I was gifted with a 6.9 x 6.2 (BPEL x mseg). Some girls have to get used to the girth, but its not a life changer, and once it’s adapted, it means nothing. I can go really rough and that is ok. Once I had a tinder date with a cute girl that said her first boyfriend was a porn actor.. I was not the dick of her life and she was not the girl of my life. We had fun but I decided to break up beacuse all we had was fun and nothing more.

I’m here because I wish to reach 8” length (BPEL). To have more control over the cervix. Not that 6.9 doesnt get the job done, but to do a good job at women cervix, I have to work in one or two positions that works.. Limits my creativity.

I don’t think that we need a monster cock or redefine women sex life by our super big cocks. Its just a matter of feeling good about ourselves and be remembered by the men we are and not the dicks we have

I’m not experiencing any loss of potency yet, I’m just trying to avoid it at all costs. Yea I fap a lot bruh.. Way too much. I believe fapping dry since I was like 11 is the reason for my 8.2” BPEL (& slight baseball bat effect) Most women I’ve had hate that cervix contact & put their hands in the way because of the pain. My current GF is a girth girl so I’m going for 6.5” or more in girth. I’m Currently at 5.75”, 6.0” while clamped but I’m far behind in both areas compared to what she was used to in her last relationship, which was 7 years. To have a big dick (8.2”x 5.75) and not be felt at all does something to you. I don’t want a painful monster cock & was fine with what I had until I met her. Now my competitive nature has kicked in, I’m determined to grow this thing!

Take a look at this book:

Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction

I don’t know if its the case, but too much stimulation can be a problem.

Cervix is a magic place, if the girl is not used to it, be gentle and don’t hammer it. It’s what they call the A spot, learning how to reach that area and stimulate it properly gave me a new perspective. Wish I know that 10 years before.. Cervical orgasms exists. And yes, being around 8” is much easier.

Anyway, we all PEers, must take safety in the first place. Much better be average and hard than big and useless.

A bit offtop, but as a holder of very long dick, you need to take responsibility and learn how to prevent that by holding, and how to use that to your advantage and push past cervix or use arousal as source of affection to that. It’s even more important than whole PE, because proverbs like “the motion of the ocean” in fact have meaningful origin.

IMO, the ideal size is something that is most in our minds. Women don’t choose the cock, choose the man.

They have their preferences, but vagina is all muscles. They can stretch (a lot!) and they can kegel till it’s freaking tight and firm. Even a pencil cock can make woman orgasm if she does kegel. Women are responsible for their own pleasure.. We are part of it, not responsible for it. Drive her crazy about you and learn with her what works best for both of you.

Anyway, IMO, shallow pussies may have difficult to get an 8” cock, but it’s workable. Medium and big pussies will take that with no major problems, even a 9”. And let the size queens for the monster cocks..

I think ideal penis size is something between 7.5” and 8.5”. Some women will prefer less and some will prefer more.

About girth, I would say 6” to 7”. But again, its easier to women get their pussies tight than for us to get our cocks bigger. They can progress in weeks what take years for us. Vaginas are muscles and they really can work out.

I had a girlfriend that complains that I am too girthy for her. For her, it’s better a girth less than 6”. Our relation last 3 years and even at the end of the relation, girth was a bit of a problem.. Lots of lube to make it work as it should. Her preference was a long and thin cock. See, there is no pattern. I was the opposite of her preference, having a 6.9 x 6.2. But we worked our way and sex was great. We were happy with our bodies and sex life. The motion is more important than PE, for sure. Make her cum. Use all your weapons, be a lover not only a cock.

My goal is 8” x 6.5” (BPEL x mseg). It’s what I think would work best for me as a lover.

So, what the guys here consider ideal?

Lots of little nuggets of gold in this post, good stuff.

Erection improves.
Any activity comes with alterations you need to understand.
In my experience, Doing 8-14 hours with extender improved my potency, but it comes with observations.

Usually as soon as I release the penis from device to go bed, I have a rock hard erection that refuses to go down, but other people experience stretch usually kills erection quality for some days. Anyway the recovery cycles are different than training a muscle.

Quit porn and masturbation drastically, don’t jerk off at all, don´t confuse your sex instincts with porn, and that´s much more beneficial for potency than any other consideration regarding PE.

Hanging destroyed my erections somewhat, not because I lost potency but because the amount of side effects were overwhelming. Blood clots thrombosing veins, lymph fluid here and there, weird pains here and there, itchiness, skin cracks..

Stay away from that risky thing. Most Extenders are medical devices and so they are safe.
If you use a noose device similar to jes extender , don’t block bloodflow. You can adjust the noose to a tightness that allows arterial pressure to get in. You will notice this because the head doesn’t go purple but stays pinky, and you can last longer with this method. You need stay under 900 grams of tension so no need more grip force in the head.

Good luck

Article:

Title: Women’s Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models
Authors: Nicole Prause, Jaymie Park, Shannon Leung, Geoffrey Miller
Published: September 2, 2015
https://doi.org … al.pone.0133079

They used 3D models with a range of 4” to 8.5” in length and 2.5” to 7” in girth for a total of 33 different models. They also studied the recall accuracy of the women.

For a one-time partner, the women chose 6.4” x 5.0”.
For a long-term partner, they chose 6.3” x 4.8”.

About the average, there are studies without a disclosed methodology (condom manufacturers), and there are studies which have poor methodology (they mix BPPEL, NBPEL and flaccid stretched). The guy which did the calcSD average (google it) took out the worst studies and made an average of the better studies. I think it is a good reference:

5.64” x 4.65”
That is BPEL. And there are reasons to believe that this girth is measured closer to the base.
Standard deviation is 0.74” for length.

P.S.: The Veale study has problems. They mix different types of measurements.

Not really offtop, hence the response/quote from another member. But going forward, I believe “Ideal” differs from Woman to Woman. Just like Some men love thicker Women, some love them on the thin side. I think I’ve been cursed and keep running into women who’s exes had abnormally large units & they where with these exes for 3 years or more. So my “Big” dick is more so average as hell to them.

Think about that: there are lots of penis sizes and shapes and also there are lots of pussy sizes and shapes. Also there are lots of physical feelings a woman may like or not during penetration..

Some women must feel her pussy stretching, but can’t stretch more than 7.5" with pleasure. There are women that can take 9" without feeling that stretch.. Some women are numb near the cervix and don’t care much about length, it’s more about girth. Some women don’t like to feel gaped but are highly sensitive at the cervix and need that area to be touched without a girthy cock. Some women feel a lot of pain back there and don’t want to feel nothing near the area. Some women likes a very rough sex and, because of the pain, prefers an average cock, some wants to feel the hardest hit as possible, some wants a light touch with a very girthy cock.. There are infinity variables and I don’t even touched the shape preferences.. So, what’s ideal??

I would love to have a cock that challenges some women, but not too much, just a bit.. A 9x7 cock isn’t feasible for a lot of women. A cock like that would be more of a challenge than truly fun sex for most women (IMO).

I think we are watching too much porn. Above average may be ideal, but doesn’t have to be too much.

Anyway, I found this chart:
Penis Size Preference Chart: SEE WHAT WOMEN WANT HERE! | HuffPost Life

Ps: every time I say cervix, I meant posterior fornix, which is the very end of a vagina..