Incognito Penis Extender

Hey fellas, I’ve been reading alot through the forums and one thing I’ve noticed is that the forum is pretty archaic and have some issues finding information. That said the sheer amount of information there out there is pretty amazing although finding up to date and centralized information can be a bit tricky(or maybe I suck at using the search function?).

It seems like from what I’ve gathered, penis extenders are the way to go for me after I’ve gotten my penis a bit conditioned with the newbie routine as length is currently my main goal with girth being secondary. I assume that jelqing is the way to go for girth but I more than welcome more advice on that matter if you guys are willing to share.

So I’m completely new to the concept of penis extenders and I would like some general key information about usage, how it should feel, how much time per session and per week, rest days. Red flags to keep an eye for and things to expect
As for what type, I very much would like a compact, incognito one that would be somewhat hard to detect if were to wear it in a public space or just around the house, having a discussion of why I have a contraption on my dick is something I would rather avoid.

I’m based in Sweden so I would greatly appreciate extenders that are available to shipping to EU or Sweden in of itself.

I only have experience with two extenders that I purchased from LeLuv. Both these extenders fasten behind the head of the penis with straps of various kinds. The first I tried is the EasyMax Gold which has a spring and the ability to easily swivel up and down. The second I tried is the Slider which doesn’t have a spring and doesn’t swivel as easily.

Most of the more expensive extenders use vacuum cups to fasten to the head of the penis rather than straps behind the head of the penis. However, I think these extenders are inherently longer and more difficult to conceal, because they must project some distance beyond the stretched length of your penis.

Probably for concealment the best choice are the designs that us a strap connected below your knee to provide tension. I have one of these, but I haven’t been able to make it work.

Personally, I gave up on the idea of concealment, and I also gave up on the idea of wearing these extenders for long durations like 8 hours. Instead, I use a lot of tension for a couple of hours per day. It’s difficult for me to even do work at my computer while wearing these extenders, so it must be some pretty easy work.