Insecure and Invested

Hey everybody, I’ve creeped on thunders and pegym now for longer than I can remember. I began my P.E. Journey when I was about 16, and have done mostly manual exercises along with a few hanging exercises on and off over the years.

My brief backstory and history, well experienced with over 50 partners in my 16 years of intimacy, but due to dating a handful of women who had a creative interpretation of the word monogamy I’ve developed a bit of PTSD and insecurities surrounding my sex life.

I’ve gotten nothing but raves and compliments on my oral skills as well as tool skills, but there’s always a part of me that feels they are lying or just trying to make me feel good about myself.

I’m currently doing the no newbie routine with jelqing and stretches every day in the shower and recently bought a vacu tech pump that I love.

I’ve owned 2 bathmate x40s and albeit they were nice, I truly enjoy the control and possibilities of using the vacu tech in my work place.

I was hoping to get some advice from fellow members about what I could do to target mostly length, and supplement my girth.

Currently I do a few sessions in my vacu tech totaling about 1-2hrs per day around 7.5 hg

I am uncircumcised and my current starting stats are.

NBPEL 7
EG 5
BPEL 9

Goals?

NBPEL 10?
EG 6?

A couple notes, I am uncircumcised, Kind of chubby, bit of a chubby “FUPA” (Fat Upper Penis Area) and have an upward curve and large thighs.

All of these things attribute to my insecurity because when combined a man of similar penile length with no curve and skinny legs with no fupa would look like he had a great penis. Whereas mine looks unintimidating.

I look forward to asking everyone advice and seeking your help! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!

You got a big dick bro your problem seems to be somewhere else

You already have a big dick, and considering your stats, if you just lost some weight it would be really big.

Losing weight are the easiest gains of them all, and there’s a plus, you always gain a healthier body and life.

Just work on losing weight my man, youll feel better, higher energy, better sex drive, longer life, I mean there’s just so much positive that comes with losing fat. Your EQ will even get better most likely.

Again, look into losing weight and your set. Then, put some energy into girth work since length will come easily for you.

I’m not morbidly obese. I weigh 235 and I’m 6 ft tall. Just built like a line backer with thunder thighs.

I have a bit of a pudgey belly but even when I was at 215 I still had that darn fupa. I’ve considered getting Lipo or something down there to be down with it already.

My goal is mostly girth but would like a bit in length or at least to be a solid 9.

My erections tend to fluctuate between the 8-9 region, and I think that being a solid 9-10 inches would greatly help the appearance of my body in the mirror.

It’s just a bummer seeing myself in the mirror and pressing that pudge in and basically exposing another 1-2 inches of penis. Flacid NBP he’s like 2 or 3 inches.

I’m currently using the elliptical cylinder tube from vacu tech with an 11 inch long tube, since I’m so close to the maximum girth for that tube would it be ok to gain girth till I can pack it fully and then continue using that tube and just stack a thicker one later on after making the length?

Or should I buy a thinner tube now ? And do the thicker one later?

Also are there a general con census as to tube types? I know they had round cylinders and elliptical ones. I don’t know what the pro pumpers prefer or why.

Any help would be appreciated.

Hit the gym or something because if you’re 9” BPEL you have at least 1” to gain just from losing weight making a SOLID 8” NBPEL now those are stats many men on here could only dream of having even kill for almost.

Also work on your self confidence, as already said you have a way above average dick with a good girth as well. Just saying.