Is my man destroying his penis

My boyfriend has been, to me.. {Torturing} his penis trying to gain girth.He is pretty much obsessed with this process.I have noticed a considerate amount of discoloration to the point that it looks black.He is a Caucasian male.He tells me when doing this it is very uncomfortable and some what painful.He is now feeling a tearing sensation also.He tells me he does see growth after doing this,but if he cums the growth is gone. My Question. Is what he’s doing causing damage ,and does this work.I am afraid from doing this at some point he will start losing his erections or damage his penis permanently.I would appreciate any feed back thank you.

Well first question is, do you want him to be bigger at all? If not, tell him now, because it does work.

He shouldn’t be feeling ‘pain’ though. Maybe some discomfort.

He is already pretty large,but I want him to be happy.What about the drastic discoloration is that normal. Will his normal color ever come back or is this permanent.Thank you for replying.

He shouldn’t feel pain at all, so he’s doing something wrong. If he fells a ‘tearing sensation’ he should stop for some days and if that sensation doen’s go way he should see a Doctor. He needs to read more around here.

I’d like to know:
1) your man has an account on this site?
2) what kind of exercises he’s doing? Any details could help figuring what’s he’s doing wrong.

Violet69, you don’t say whether he is a member here. If he is not, he might want to join so that he can ask any questions he might have for himself. He might want to do so soon; enrollment closes from time to time, and will be closing soon. He shouldn’t post questions under your identity here, either; that’s a violation of Forum Guidelines.

Has he been doing this for long? It is not unusual for people doing PE to ‘overdo it’ sometimes, especially if they are being encouraged by seeing results. And yes, PE does work and done correctly, results in more and better (not to mention larger) erections.

There may be some discomfort, but PE should not be painful. If it outright hurts, he is probably overdoing.

I hope this helps.

Yes he does have an account on here.I don’t no what type of things he’s doing.I do no he’s clamping.But that’s all I no.I no very little about this process.

Maybe you are too worried, violet. Where is it possible to have injuries doing PE, it’s unlikely that those injuries could be unrecoverable.

The discoloration is pretty frequent, it’s not a sign of illness, and tends to be pretty much permanent.

How many times a day should he be doing these exercises.I think he is doing this to often.

It depends. Most do clamping once per day. Clamping is an advanced exercise, anyway, he should attempt it only after several months of manual based exercises.

He has been doing these exercises for about a year.I think he is doing this three times a day,don’t no if he is clamping each time though.

Violet: Nice to see a spouse, or S.O. Take an interest, especially one that might lead to an intervention. Sounds like he may be over-doing the clamping. I agree the discoloration is somewhat permanent. I also agree if he says it hurts, he is doing something wrong. Do you know if he is also pumping?

Keep us posted, by all means.

How is he’s erection quality? The first sign one is overdoing is a worse sexual performance.

I”m not sure if he is pumping.and thank you for the kind words marinera.He has an incredable stamina still,his erections are pretty much the same.

So everything should be ok. Tell him that he never should feel any pain, and that overworking is worse than underworking in PE. He should know that already if he’s a member here, but repeating can’t hurt.

Oh, and keep repeating him “You are already large.”. We males never have enough of that. :)

By the way, he’s lucky to have a girlfriend that worries that much about him.