Keeping The Curve

So I have started the newbie routine, on my 2nd month. Scared to measure because I don’t want to see that there are no changes and I never got a perfect erect measurement to start.

I feel like I’ve read nonstop and there there are a thousand endless rabbit holes and no clear process/formula.

I’m wanting to continue safely and slowly but keep the look of my member which I think looks perfect. It has a slight upward bend/curve. Just enough to really give it character and to help me not abuse my wife’s clit and really give her some fun.

As I continue the PE journey I’m worried about working it out just pulling it straight all the time, will that diminish the curve?

What about if I ever move to hanging or extending, will that diminish the curve? If so how can I counter balance it?

Also, I never noticed I had such a large base compared to the end until measuring just behind the glans and the base while soft , is there any reliable way to only girth up part of the member, especially the tip/before the tip?

Thanks for any help.

I had a extreme curve on my cock, once it get thicker it didn’t really matter because the girth made it earier to make a woman cum