lately my performance has sucked

Damn, I just don’t get what is going on with me and sex. The last 2 months I have been lasting like 5 mins during sex, when I used to go for 45-60 mins and twice I went for 1 1/2 hrs. This is really disappointing when I hear my fiance say in a irritated voice ” Don’t cum, keep going ” or ” I was just about to cum “, fuck I never had this problem before. I said this in a different thread a few months back and I am going to say it again, PE has to be the cause of this. I would Really hate to give up PE since I’ve made gains, but damn, I cant go on with only lasting 5 mins. Any advice guys?

Now I don’t know whether this is true or not, but I did read somewhere on one of the forums that masturbating and stopping before you cum, than doing that again a few more times can help with lasting longer in bed. Who knows, it could be true, definitely worth a try, give it a shot!

Maybe it’s the fiance conditioning your ass to a life of servitude and humiliation? Not saying it is, but she sure sounds like a bitch to me.

Yeah, its called edging, but I have never gave it a try since my time with PE has become limited to wearing the ADS at work, and clamping/jelqing in the shower. Hell, if I spend anymore time in the shower, my water bill will be $200 instead of the $90 its at now. The fiance already ask me why we use so much conditioner. Maybe I will try to work it in my routine somehow, this needs fixed.

Well you could always try not doing it in the shower, lol

Or another suggestion is that you could do it with sex, edge yourself out, than pleasure her in other ways for some time

One possible reason for lasting so short (when usually you can perform much longer) is fatigue. It’s a self-protecting mechanism of the body to avoid exhaustion. So make sure you take enough sleep and rest!

I’ve been having this problem since starting pe also. I think the fatigue thing might be it. If I take a week off pe it gets better.

If u can get your hands on some zoloft or another ssri, they really make it hard to cum. If I take 50mgs of zoloft I have to really try hard to cum. If I take 100mg I can’t come at all.

Pleasure her for more time with your regular unit or fuck her with a monster cock for 5 minutes? I’d go for Kegel’s.

i have the exact opposite results, before newbie routine i could last under 5 min now its minimum of 20 min 2 months in, weird.

My Zoloft is a pint of Jack Daniels, fuck I can bang all night long when I drink that shit.

Yeah most women are bitchy, but I am just as guilty at making comments while we fuck. Sometimes she cant keep going after she cums, so I used to say shit like ” just come the fuck on ” or ” I need to find me someone who can keep going “.

Hell, I don’t blame her for wanting me to keep fucking, I sometimes get irritated when she cant keep going for round 2.

Just wondering, has the length of time you masturbate also reduced?

Nope, sure hasn’t. For some reason I have a feeling that its like a psychological problem. I say this because, ever since I started clamping I vision this huge dick on me while fucking her, kinda intensifies everything.

So I did try edging today, not sure if I was doing it right, but I will explain. What I have gathered about edging is, once you are about to cum, stop all stimulation until the feeling subsides, then repeat. Is this what edging is, or do I have this all backwards? Well I guess a few more beers and some thinking will get this problem solved.

Im guessing that if PE were the cause then it would also affect masturbation. Maybe tho PE has somehow affected how quickly you become aroused or how your penis reacts when you are really aroused. Hope that makes sense. Its likely though its all in your head ;)

I just got myself off of that stuff. Not only is it a sexual downer, but it is poison in many ways. I had all kinds of shit feelings while trying to get off the stuff. Nervous tics, fatigue, nausea etc. don’t encourage that stuff. He’s better off drinking 3 pints of beer than taking a zoloft.