I was trying to describe what you have said :) It seems I wasn’t successful.
I have the orgasm, but I don’t ejaculate. By doing kegeling in the middle of the orgasm.
But it isn’t as superb as it sounds for me. Of course it is MUCH less tiresome (compared to ejaculation), yes. But it decreases the libido anyway, because you get the “relief” you normally get after the ejaculation when you do this. I think it might have something to do with the hormones, that are increased in blood when you have an orgasm. I can feel it in my head..
To give an example: there was a time I did MOM for pleasure 5-6 times a day. I was thinking: “I’m not ejaculating anyway, so no problem.”. But this wasn’t the case, After 2 days, it was much harder to do a PE workout for me, because it tends to become an addiction. And my erection quality was less.
Of course, to be objective, I had these observations for myself when I was masturbating. Doing this technique with a partner may be different.
But to comment overall, of course it is a great skill, I don’t want to give any misguidence to anyone about that. :)
Note: You can do “edging” much more comfortably when you have this skill, you have the option to stop ejaculation anytime anyway..
Start: 6.9 BPEL x 4.9 (17,5 x 12,5 cm)
Now: 7.7 BPEL x 5.7 (19,5 x 14,5 cm)