My girlfriend saw it

Just wanted to report, my girlfriend saw my penis for the first time since I’ve been making gains, and she said it looked bigger! She said it was kind of hot and kind of exciting to her. I told her we’re not having sex till her birthday so that she can be all surprised when it’s bigger. I told her about the PE a little while ago. She thought it was a little odd, but at the same time curious. I think that she’s into the idea even tho she doesn’t lead on.

It was really a thrill to hear her say that it looked bigger. I hope my story is encouraging for anyone else who’s starting out!

So you showed her your penis and said, “Not now, honey.” You bastard! :)

No, seriously, it is amazing that we (some of us) can share this kind of stuff with our lovers and it is OK. I can just imagine what my Baptist roots uber conservative demon slayer wife would say if I told her I was trying to make my dick bigger.

I’m taking it you are not Baptist, huh, OHL.

I find it a bit odd that you plan your sexual encounters in advance. Have you marked on your 2005 calender the days that this will occur?

In the almost 23 years my wife and I have been married, we have always planned our sexual encounters. It gives us something to think about during the day to get revved up for the evening. We also have a “5 o’clock Rule” which means we (well really me) don’t say anything stupid after 5 oclock if you want to get laid.

My friends have always made fun of us for doing so, but we have sex about 10 to 1 over them. Sooooo…

Soooooo….I’m marking my calendar right now. July 4th. Should that be before or after the fireworks? Maybe during!!! :D

If it something I learnt during my 15 years of marriage it is to NEVER plan sex. Every time we do, it fails for some reason. We had plenty of occasions where sex felt so natural and wanted, and we still for various reasons postponed it until later and it either did not happen or it was horrible. So, nowadays we take it whenever we feels like it, and it is a lot.
We sometimes hide out in the laundry room, or in the bathroom, or take special walks in the woods just for the sake of having sex without being disturbed by the kids.

Oden

Married almost 19 years and have had planned and unplanned sex. Does it really matter what kind? Just enjoy the moment, night, or weekend.

As for giving it to her on her b’day, that is a great idea. A little twist, this year she will be getting opened up for her present.

Ummmm. No. Jesus was a Nazarene.

(That was a joke!) I am non-denominational.

That is funny! My wife (girlfriend at the time) kept a calendar on the outside of her dorm room door. She was the floor RA and needed to track and share events related to the floors activities with the rest of the girls. She also put ‘special’ marks on each day representing the activities of the night before. She had codes for every base, including home plate! It was FUN to go back and look at that calendar and reflect on all the love we shared during that time. I’m gonna have to dig that thing out now.

With kids planning never seemed to work for me you just never knew when they would do something to ruin the mood like announce at 8:30pm that they had a book report due the next day and they haven’t started yet. I was never good at the never say nothing stupid after 5pm thing :)

The reason we’re planning it is because we both live with roommates, and it’s difficult to have sex in either of our homes. Given, there are opportunities when everyone gets out of the house and we have spontaneous wild sex, but they’re few and far between, so on her birthday, we’re gonna get a hotel room. I’m gonna make it all romantic for her with candles and stuff. I’m weightlifting and PEing for the next 6 weeks so on her bday I’ll be a BIG sexy man for her.

Hey I thought you were talking about my wife. Until I re-read your post. My wife has Catholic roots.

I’m with you on this one Dino. I could make a date with myself to masterbate at 4 am and sure enough, someone around here would wake up and kick the door in on me.

Funny I like to plan things out also but I never seem to get the wife’s approval. She must have a 5 o’clock rule too, but I think it’s 5:00 am.

Thats pretty funny. I think Mrs 7 has applied that rule to me a few times also.

But on a brighter note, at 4:45 a.m. this morning when I was leaving to go to the gym I said- “Hey how bout tonite?” at which she responded “yeahhh I’ll be ready”

Even an hour ago when I talked to her on the phone she said — “you didnt forget about tonite did you?”

And I said— “No way, I cant wait to taste that pussy”

She said — “shhhh, keep your voice down or someone in your office will hear you”

I said— “it’s only PirateSteve and I’ve already told him how I eat your pussy”

Then she hung up the phone. But since it was prior to 5 o’clock I’m still okay.