My motivation, maybe yours too

I know guys with much bigger dicks then me;
I know guys with much smaller dicks then me;
Out off both of these groups, there are some of these guys that I like, some that I absolutely hate.

It’s always a good feeling when someone you don’t like has a smaller dick then you.

One of my girlfriend’s Ex’s was about 2 inches smaller then me (4EL, her estimate).

Another of my girlfriend’s Ex’s was about 3 inches bigger then me (9EL, her estimate).

I know girls can be off, but I have called myself small around her (in hopes of getting compliments), but she says, “No, you are average, plus it seems like you are still growing (she doesn’t know that I PE ;D ).”

So either way, one of her Exes is significantly bigger then me(although she says I’m much better in bed, size doesn’t matter, but I’m pretty sure it helps).

THAT is my motivation, her EX, the douche bag with a bigger dick then me.

Whatever it takes, I guess. I’ve never understood the reason straight guys even ask about the size of their girlfriend’s previous lovers. Gay guys don’t do that. It would never occur to me to ask about my boyfriend’s previous lovers since it has no bearing on our relationship. A lot of you straight guys set yourselves up for grief by asking that type of question. Doesn’t seem logical to me.

Your girlfriend sounds like she knows what she’s talking about and isn’t your typical female who can’t measure things. She also tells you that the sex you two have is better than what she had with her ex. That’s the compliment you got, even if you were looking for a different one. Seems to me that your motivation should be to continue to please her with what you have and perhaps even more so if you are bigger, without even thinking about some guy who’s no longer in the picture.

I asked every women I’ve been with about the size of her past. It doesn’t bother me in the least if she says she’s been with bigger. For some strange reason, I kinda like picturing it.

I use to be a jealous person. Believe me life is so much easier when your not jealous. The only question is, am I not jealous because of the women I’m currently with (my wife). She doesn’t try to make me jealous. Or did I just grow out of it?

My wife and I have had that discussion and out of the 4 men she has been with , unfortunately I am the smallest, but then I began to think hmmm but she married me (licks his eyebrows) I wonder why?

tom234098

I totally undertand your motivation and reasons behind PE, I have exactly the same motivation reasons, I asked my wife the same question, I don’t know why I ever did but I got pretty much the same response as you, she said the smallest guy was about 4” and the largest she did not know but it was too big it caused her pain and was uncomfortable, I myself tried to picture how bloddy large was this guy?? I was eating my mind away, even though she told me mine was perfect it was not good enough I needed to be bigger, It is definatly just an ego thing, the thought of my wife getting drilled buy someone thats bigger than me, but what kills me more is she does not know in inches how big he was so was he 9, 10 or 11 who knows, I did show her a cucumber once and said thats what 12” looks like and to my relief the guy was not that big, so from what she showed me in relation to the cucumber I worked out he must have been around 9” but if he were 10, or 11 she would definatly know because it would have looked like a hose pipe LOL, Anyhow my quest will continue and I must say since I began PE my erections are so hard now and I have made a small gain which gave me a great boost, so to all you guys out there with girls a word of warning, DO NOT ASK ABOUT THE SIZE OF X LOVERS!!! it will drive you to drink :-)

Forget the past, it will eat you up if you’re jealous.

Had the same problem. My girl told me she had had a guy that was bigger than me.Well, I’m average so that’s not an unlikely thing to happen.
And, since I’m jealous, that really pissed me off. You guys know what I mean. But, a few month later, she was still with me and now, it’s been 6 years. So, I guess, I’m really doing a good job (not only with my dick) to keep her satisfied.
And all you guys out there that share the same jealousy.just imagine you are good enough to keep that lady and now your pushing for a larger dick - hey, that’s really going to “rock the boat”. LMAO. And I guess that’s when they say to their friends.”Hey, the guy was close to perfect and that’s why I stuck with him. But now he’s perfect because his dick is f*** me mad!”.

Yeah, and that is why I’m constantly squashing my dick.

tom234098,

No matter how big you get there will always be someone out there who is bigger than you. A female friend of mine related an interesting story to me. She said that she used to date a guy with the biggest one she had ever seen. Unfortunately, it was very floppy; adequate for penetration but the quality of his erections were low. He didn’t satisfy her. She dated another guy who only had about 4 inches but always had very hard erections, incredible control and great technique. She considered him the best she had ever had. The moral of the story: women and men think much differently about the size issue. Its probably more important to us.

The best thing you can do when a chick brings up the size of an ex is just tell her you don’t give a shit! You take the power away from her when she know you are confident in your size and if you have a bitch she won’t be able to fuck with your head.

>It’s always a good feeling when someone you don’t like has a smaller dick then you.

For me it’s just not just people I don’t like, it’s anyone who isn’t from the PE underground (as they’re therefore in the same situation as me). I like knowing that ‘I win’, though there’s no way of actually knowing of course, unless I ask him to show me it. And that might make people a little uncomfortable.

So I just look at the averages, no matter how much bragging people do I am still longer than about 85% of them. The statistics do not lie my friends!

It’s an inner smile thing.

Wrestler,

>I’ve never understood the reason straight guys even ask about the size of their girlfriend’s previous lovers. Gay guys don’t do that.<

That’s because gay guys don’t have girlfriends. :)
Just playin, it’s probably because you have seen so many that you’ve probably seen the whole spectrum so there’s not much point in asking. :)
That might seem flippant but there’s some truth to it.

>A lot of you straight guys set yourselves up for grief by asking that type of question. Doesn’t seem logical to me.<

Yes indeed we do. I did that, I don’t do it now. Of course not all of us do, just the insecure ones that just HAVE to know one way or the other. It’s a negative thought process but people are stuck in their ways even if we tell them otherwise on here. I remember a thread where a guy was asking whether he should ask his girl about her exes and everyone said NO, but he did anyway.
Odd.

SS4

True Genius sir. I owe you another drink. Well said yet again.

So true!