Excellent observation!
I think the characterization is correct: if you want it, really really want it, and put in the effort - like Titleist and Thoughtfulgold and others have- then you may achieve your goals. The reality is most people do not persevere and so they do not achieve their goals. Does this mean the goal is delusional or not achievable? No, it means that the individual’s priorities changed and the PE goal was no longer at the top of the list.Or maybe reality set in and he found out that he didn’t need an 8” dick to make his woman happy and have a great life. He may still want 8 inches, but he knows life is pretty good even without it.
PE for most men is like a New Year’s resolution to lose weight and go on a diet. Everyone starts off very motivated with good intentions, but after a couple months they find out that it requires discipline and commitment, and that’s too much like work.
It took me 4 years to gain my 2 3/8” in erect length and 1 3/8” - 1 1/2” in erect girth. My motivation to keep pressing forward came from the gains I made, and taking short breaks when I felt burned out. Having realistic short term goals helps too… don’t think about the 2” - 3” gain, think about the 1/4” gain, and build that foundation one brick at a time! Put the tape measure in the drawer and don’t take it out for the next six months until you’ve paid your dues. PE should be something you look forward to, having the right mindset is critical. If you view your PE training as a chore, you are sure to fail.