Smoking weed does affect EQ for me. If I haven’t smoked my erections are slightly firmer, but if I’ve just smoked they’re noticeably thicker. This isn’t just my observation either, I’ve had two seperate girls say the same. One was extremely tight to the point where sex was at times painful, and when I’d smoke she’d say things like “Be careful baby, you’re REALLY big right now.” There’s also a difference in my ejaculatory control when I’ve smoked. I can fuck much rougher for longer when I’ve smoked without getting the desire to come, and can choose when to ejaculate. When sober I can do the same sort of, but I’ll have to stop or slow down more often to keep from coming, and I’m always right on the edge of orgasm. As far as the testosterone part of the equation, I seem to retain slightly more fat when I’ve been smoking a lot lately (I’m a recreational bodybuilder so I’m pretty conscious of my body composition), but I’m also more aggressive in the right situation (I used to smoke before rugby games and I’d find myself being much more aggressive and animalistic). In terms of actually test levels I’ve never had them checked during a period of abstinence from smoking, but I’ve had them checked while smoking a few times a week and they were in the high range of average, so its not like its plummeted my testosterone production. It does affect my appetite though and in this way I could see it affecting metabolism.
I don’t think I’ll ever stop smoking though, especially before sex. When I’ve blazed I’m pretty much a porn star. Stoned sex is one of my favorite things in this lifetime, I see no reason to stop, even if its given me some EQ differences. The one change I’ve made recently is to begin vaporizing instead of rolling blunts, as I think tobacco is a dirty plant. It’s been interesting because now I can discern which effects are from the marijuana, and which effects were from the tobacco. I’m trying to think if theres anything else I can add of value… Oh yes, this might interest you. My longest retreat from smoking weed occurred last summer when I was forced to stop for 6 weeks while traveling in a country with somewhat draconian drug laws, and I seemed to get my EQ to or very close to where it was before I ever smoked weed. I’m 23 years old, started smoking at about 13-14 once in a while, increased the frequency to a few times a week since about 17. Hope you can gain something from my experiences, all the best.