need an advice from the experts

I know it’s full of stallions here who know all there is to know about women. for this I admire you. I want to tell you the story of a few days ago. I am 23 years old, I am very shy and I have social anxiety and I was a virgin until a few days ago, I had a bad day and I was very angry. so, I don’t know why but I decided to have sex with a prostitute. I was really anxious about going to a stranger’s house, being naked and having sex. in the end I went there, gave me a blowjob and had sex. I lasted 5 minutes, because stupidly I hadn’t masturbated for two days. I tried a pussy for the first time, it was very nice. I thought I wasted years of my life being a loser when I could have sex. now I want to start a new life, I want to have sex regularly. but I don’t know how to do it and I need your advice. I don’t know how to talk to women, I tried to use social media as instagram, but when I follow them they don’t follow me. in real life I’m very shy and I don’t know what to say to a girl.

You need to meet in person so they see how you really are. Online you need to be able to talk a good game and pictures are very deceiving. Ask them about themselves and things that they like. DONT tell them how beautiful they are. When they ask about you keep your answers short and to the point and don’t go on and on about things unless they LOVE whatever you’re talking about. Ask them what they think about things and how they feel about things. Don’t use pickup lines just say hi. Write down questions that you would ask women and read them and study them so they come out naturally. (Just a start) it gets easy with practice.

Very good advice, especially the whole telling them their beautiful. They don’t need to hear that, if your talking to them clearly your interested in them. They hear that stuff enough from weirdos. When the time is right you could and should always tell them you think they are attractive, but not right away.

Your first few times of sex is going to be practice. Don’t expect anything and don’t over think anything. Just know that if she is in bed with you and willing to have sex you’ve already made big moves. She already wants it, clearly.

Most importantly, look at it as fun, not a job. Enjoy yourself. The more you do it the easier it gets.

Oh, and NEVER tell anyone that you slept with a prostitute. Girls will think you’re diseased and won’t bang you and guys may blab to women to get in good and block you out.

Thanks for precious advice guys. My remaining problem is my shyness, i mean i am trying to expose myself step by step to social situation. But to know new girls i have to stop them and say something, but what? Asking about weather or things like that seems to be very weird

Just say hello and ask them how they’re doing. Ask questions and listen. Women love to talk.

Hey Jasonte
This may not be what you want to hear but since you´ve been very open and honest explaining your experience and your future aspirations, I think you really need a different kind of reply than the one you are looking for… so forgive me if I am brutally honest:

From the motivations you have explained: “no sex experience/ tried with a prostitute/ now want new lifestyle involving regular sex”, the rationale is that all you are looking for is a replacement for the prostitute.
You want some girl who will be your regular sex hole. So unless you are upfront with them and clearly go explain your motivations to them, you will be dishonest and no matter what you do to lure them, not only they will soon or later realize what your goal is , and they will realize you treat them like prostitutes too and they wont like it, but you will be unhappy after you realize that sex, taken as a regular spice to your life, like sort of sport, wont make you happy if detached from a real life commitment.
So you will deceive them dishonestly, and you will deceive yourself into a meaningless crave for sex.

The true reason why you are shy is because you subconsciously know they will realize all i explaind so far.
Your reasons are not honest because as you explained, what you want is regular sex, you want what that prostitute provided and now you want it for free. So you will treat other woman as prostitutes somewhat, you want to simply fuck without a generous prospect of adding something valuable for their lives, and therefore your feel a inner pressure to hide your moves and hide your personality, to hide yourself from the light of a more open personality that would expose what you really want. That´s where your shyness stems from. You dont want to treat women with honesty, and therefore you hide your moves subconsciously and shy yourself.

This is why you feel is weird or awkward to say hello and chatting about weather or superficial trivial stuff with a stranger to break the ice… of course… why losing time chatting nonsense when all I want is fuck her holes? Anyone would feel like an actor if that´s the mindset in the bottom of your heart, and anyone would feel fake, and would become embarrassed, and introvert and shy.

So my advice is :
-Stop considering as something bad that you didnt masturbate enough before the prostitute visit.
-You better dont masturbate at all, dont watch porn, which is probably why you think of women as whores.
-Start to develop a possitive mindset: a desire to make a woman happy
-You will soon or later feel so good about yourself that you won´t feel any shyness, since there´s nothing to hide in your intentions but everything to show.
-Women will notice with their arachnid sixth sense and you will find a real life partner to spend your life with.

Yes bro, what you said is the truth, but except for the shyness… i mean i was virgin at 23, and the cause was my shyness and my poor social life (no friends). But i don’t care about friends, i am a boring guy, don’t know what talking about, and people don’t want to be my friends for this reason , the same at my job, some guys tease me, probably because i am shy and they think i am weird or things like that, but i repeat i don’t care about this. The only thing that i want now in my life is have sex, because i discovered i mess something beautiful for years. Probably you are right when say that i am just looking for girls without love. But what is wrong with that? A lot of people do the same thing… the point is that i dont have idea how to overcome my shyness

Anyone wants to be friends with normal people just out of a inner need to socialize. I mean other people need you even if only for their own needs.

If you want to have a lot of sex, focus on the people that have already made advances towards you. The more people you interact with, the more advances you will get.

It’s a shame to see people with low self esteem because they are simply focusing on people that aren’t interested in them.

I would completely avoid people that pose a elevated risk of being contagious though.

If you lower your standards, even if you’re ugly you can sleep with many people, and strangely, people generally seem to find others more attractive when they know their bed is already occupied.

I’ve always had more interest from potential partners when they know I’m involved with someone else. Human behavior is weird.