NEW GUY advice

I am new to this whole PE thing. I will give you some brief background info in case it helps. I am currently about 6.75”x5”. I am in a loving relationship and my girl loves sexy time (never fail to make her orgasm). I know I’m not small by any means, and I also know I’m not “huge”. I just would feel more confident with a bit more size, mainly girth. Confidence is everything, I don’t think adding girth is really going to make it that much better for her but I do think the confidence I gain by being thicker would help me be a better lover. I have read over this site for years now and finally decided to join. I seem to come across a lot of “newbie” routines and they can be quite different. If any one has any advice on how I should set up my routine id really appreciate it. Based on what I have read I came up with my own that I’ve been doing for about a week. I do the following:
1)warm up with warm rag for about 5 minutes
2)stretch up, down, left, right, and straight out for one set of 30 seconds each
3)Jelq with fairly soft (maybe 40-50% erect) for 10-15 minutes

I have been doing this nearly everyday. I just was wondering what kind of frequency I should use 3x/wk, 4x/wk, 2 on 1 off, etc?
Again I’m mainly concerned with gaining a bit of girth, would be happy with just a 1/4 inch as I mentioned its mainly just for my confidence( and the lady has a rather small vagina that already feels pretty tight)
After I get a solid routine that I can feel confident about I plan to be very consistent with it and track my progress on here.
I may be already on the right track because after the second day of my own routine I went to get some loving and I got very erect (as if I hadn’t had any in years) an it also felt a bit longer, I also noticed the next day I was hanging a little thicker and longer in flaccid state than usual.
Thanks in advance for any advice!

Welcome to the club, jackedntan123. Your routine seems ok. Frequency will be determined by your PIs. Keep an eye on them. So far it looks like they’re staying positive. (Fuller flaccid, strong erections etc. )

Consider taking some accurate measurements. It’s hard to know if you’re really making progress if you’re not sure of your startIng size. (Which is quite respectable, by the way!)

Proceed carefully and enjoy the journey. Stay in touch. Good luck.

Thank you for the advice! Now that I know I’m on the right track I will take some accurate measurements, and track my progress. To be clear essentially I should just do it as often as I can while seeing positive results, which seems like common sense haha so maybe it is a dumb question! Haha

Welcome jack. Start with 2 ON / 1 OFF and then, if You need, add more training days (or rest days). The feedback You describe are good. Your goal is nothing far.

Remember that there is no one-size-fits-all with PE routines. Every man gains differently and has different tolerances. And we all gain in different ways. It’ll be up to you to keep a close eye on what seems to be working and to be prepared to tweak the routine if necessary to keep the gains happening.

And it wasn’t a dumb question. We’re all here to help each other.

Your routine seems fine. 2on 1off is fine. I would reccomend to take the weekends off. Something like M-T-T-F on. 4 days a week.Rest is important. You are gaining on rest days.