My thoughts on this is that our sense of perception are all skewed. I looked up a porn actor today who is thought to be large but it is mostly camera angles and small women. His hands are big so he keeps them out of shot or close to his base. One picture with a tape measure had a woman with small hands holding it with the first 3” hidden under her hand making him look like he was packing 10”.
We as a society have a hard time showing ourselves in our most vulnerable moments. This forum is even skewed. The larger guys don’t have much issue showing and telling. It leads us to believe that most men are larger than the perceived average.
I believe my size is just right for me. Anyone shorter than me should have a smaller unit. That mindset helps me keep check with myself so I don’t get over zealous and train too much to frequent.
Thunders has proved a great training ground but can hurt a lot of male ego’s. We all have to love what we have, then work from that point. We all need to just strive to be a little better everyday.