pain from not ejaculating...

I read somewhere that to last longer in bed, one should learn to control their ejaculation. So I have been masturbating almost to the point of no return and stopping for a few minutes then start again. Now I feel this pain(discomfort) in my crotch area(above dick and below stomach). Is this normal??

yes it is. I believe its synonymous with blue balls. I get that to if I have been aroused for a long time and don’t cum. Just get yourself off and you will feel better.

It’s a strange place to feel blue balls, but if cumming fixes it, then that’s your problem.

That is probably the electric burn of an orgasm happening without ejaculation that multiple male orgasm practitioners talk about. I’ve experienced it a few times while edging.