Originally Posted by sta-kool
I must be old because I count blow jobs as sex.
Hey sta-kool, that is a good question/statement.
I think of sex as both being fully involved, usually (almost always) including some serious fucking eventually leading to both having or trying to achieve an orgasm. Of course, if we take turns going down on each other, her stroking, me licking her tits and we both cum without fucking, well then of course that is sex.
On those days/nights when she is not up for the above mentioned sex, she will often just give me a quickie 10 minute blow job. She is fully clothed, and while interested, not that passionate and kind of has the “I love you and am going to give you some pleasure, but don’t take all day!” attitude. I will take it. It feels great, gives me a chance to show off my improved PE dick & EQ, and a chance to shoot my load. But that 10 minutes is not sex.
But it is a great 10 minutes.