Penis insecurity

Ever since iv been about 13 iv had a severe penis insecurities. Being 21 now, nearly 22 this insecurity has played a major factor in my life. It has hindered me from ever having sex and having a normal relationship with a girl. Iv had many of opportunity’s now to have sex in a one night stand situation but always made an excuse. Iv even tried to get over it by having copious amount of alcohol, but never been able to do it, as I think when the girl sees my penis she will think it’s small. I think people are starting to think I am strange being nearly 22 and never having a girlfriend. Recently Iv taken a girl out on a few dates and I am meant to be going to hers at the end of the week (and her intentions are not just to watch TV ). Every time I think of this I feel ill because I know when it comes to the crunch the anxiety will kick in again and I will end up making excuses. I feel as if my youth is passing me by and I am not having the fun that I should be. I don’t have a problem with my erect length as it’s 7.5” pressed to the bone. The problem is my penis girth, it’s 4.85” in the middle,4.75” at the base and only 4.1” at the end of the shaft where it meets the penis head. My penis seems very thin to me and being a big guy of 6 feet 5” does not help. I have two questions in which I hope some people can help me with. Is it normal that my penis girth has such a variance in size going from 4.85 down to 4.1? Does anyone have any advice on how I can over come the insecurity and anxiety?

Welcome to Thunders.

You are not alone, there are several guys here with more or less the same problems. They will give you advice and help so that you can overcome your anxiety.

Do a lot of reading and seeking and you should be able to find your answers. My take is just believe in yourself and the rest takes care of itself.

Well, your middle and base girths are just fine, about the average and you have great length, well above average. Luckily for you, your smallest part is near the tip, which is the easiest to gain. As for insecurities and anxiety, those are things only you can deal with. My motto is, “be confident in your size and focus your mind on technique.”

Hi no1knows and welcome to the forum.

I think you should be more positive about this issue, because I think that there is nothing wrong with you.

For the first question: Penises come in different shapes, and there are some really strange shapes out there. So, I think that you don’t have to worry about this “problem”. And I know a lot of guys here wishes for your length 7.5”.

For the second question: If you are still convinced that there is some thing wrong with you, you are at the right place. In this forum, you are going to find a huge amount of information about penis enlargement. Using this information, which helped a lot of guys to develop bigger penises, you can achieve the size “especially the girth” that you wish.

no1knows, Welcome and check this out. Remember she’s gonna have her own insecurities, so make her feel good about herself and the actions will be reciprocated.

Bro, welcome to the boards I just want to say, you are blessed with a truly amazing unit. I would chop off my pinky toe to be your length but let me tell you something:

I’m 5” length x 4” girth and I’ve given girls some of the most intense sex they’ve had. Eyes rolling back, toes scrunched up, sounding like a fukn horse.

So push your insecurities to the side and just give her some of that gravy sauce. Theres certain positions you can look up that make your penis feel BIGGER inside them, make their pussy feel FULLER. You might want to check on these as a temporary solution, as a long term solution start reading and get started on some PE and you’ll see some gains in no time. Welcome aboard brother =)

You’ve come to the right place. Don’t worry, in quick time you will surpass 5EG.

Dude, you really have a great dick.
Your length is amazing. Your girth is really about average, so overall you are above average. And you know what the best thing is? You can make your girth bigger with PE! So just get on to the Newbie Routine and stop complaining, you can have an amazing sex life if you just force yourself not to listen to what your mind says, but what the girls will say.
Really, I would love to switch dicks with you. So go out there, have fun, and then come back here, AND DO YOUR JELQS LIKE A GOOD BOY! :) :) :)

Best of luck!

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Hey Bud, & welcome, man I wish I was 22 again, I also had insecurities about sex and I am smaller than you, but for me it was lasting longer.

Just take a deep breath and dive in, have fun now, focus on foreplay when your with someone, that positive response from your partner should give a nice ego boost and help build some confidence a little at a time.

What you don’t want to do is let your youth pass you by, you will kick yourself later on down the line (I know I have.)

I think your consciousnesses of the situation will make you a good partner to be with.

And if you get any negative responses just move on because what women think varies greatly (I’ve had my share of bad comments.)

Anyway good luck dude, & enjoy your stay.

Hey man, you are in good shape already. I understand being a big, tall guy it would seem that the stereotype applies (tall guys supposedly have bigger dicks). Do some reading here, and you will see that there is not too much truth to that. You are on the upper edge of average already, so don’t worry. You will do just fine! If you have never done PE before, you have a golden opportunity to do it right, and experience the (usually easier) newbie gains. Read, read, read. Get on a good newbie routine, don’t over-do, or under-do it, and I’d bet you can gain an inch in length, and 1/2 inch in girth inside of 6 months.

Just keep your head right, and the best of luck to you!

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What you don’t want to do is let your youth pass you by, you will kick yourself later on down the line (I know I have.)

Agreed, I am 23, significantly smaller(6.25”BP) been with two satisfied girls and I kick myself for not experiencing more women in just my five “adult” years. Sex is one the best parts of life, live it.

Thanks for the advise guys, just hope PE works for me.

I agree. Talk to her about your issue.