Porn complex

Is it possible to watch too much porn? For instance, I love porn and whack it almost everyday, but the only thing you see in porn movies are hot skinny women and monster dicks. Is it possible to grow accustomed to only skinny women? I had a gf a while back and every time we tried fucking I couldn’t keep it up, not saying she was the skinniest girl I’ve ever seen, but I wouldn’t really call her fat either. So is it possible that the fear of not having a monster dick combined with only whacking it to skinny girls causing a problem?

It’s possible. Only you can answer that question and I think you know the answer.

Like watching too much media, it can significantly skew your perception of reality.

I’m the oposite way. Porn doesn’t give me erection, but being close to a real woman (skinny or not) will.

Perhaps yo need to change the type of porn you watch. I usually take a break during the day and surf for some porn. Not porn involves “hot skinny women and monster dicks” just what your watching. Try looking at some amateur stuff or perhaps try to cut back on your porn.

I agree with your strategy ;)

Avoid Mandingo.He is useless in his videos.

Freaks of cock. Well If you like to laugh att silly plastic cocks. Well go ahead.

Amateur is the best.

The porn is fucking up your perception of reality. Work on this before you mess up your state of arousal around real women.

It depends how you deal with porn, For me it can take over my life. I’m addicted to sex and have OCD which doesn’t seem to be a good combination, At one point I was spending from I woke untill bed surfing porn. Iv seen everything and it does effect my erections. When I give it up I become 13 again and have erections constantly all day, When I’m watching it again I need to watch it all the time to get one. It’s hard to give up, I can go weeks then all of a sudden I’m downloading 50gbs of porn but pe helps me, I realise if I want to be consistent with a routine I need to quite or calm the porn because I can wank 10 times a day easily and my cock ends up being to sensitive to even attach the hanger or jelq.

One more thing I would like to say is that when she was standing with her ass right against my dick I was getting boners, but when the clothes came off it was just not happening.

Well, fuck her with her clothes on then. ;)

Normally I would watch the same kind of movies (more or less) and this caused two things. One, I would mentally feel small and that would effect my erection and overall experience negatively. And two, I felt insecure about my size in public and in my own private thoughts.

Now my situation is a little different from yours but I believe if you change the type of material you watch and reduce the amount you watch you would be making an improvement. For example by looking at pictures (as in a power point format) instead of videos; by doing so you may use more imagination and not be so dependent on a certain type of stimulation or as mentioned before you could change the venue. For me, amateur doesn’t do anything so I will suggest something else that I find enjoyable, search for tribbing (or scissoring) and smothering. If not just keep looking but the point is to change your routine up. Best of luck to you.

Of course porn fucks your perception of reality. In the real world, penises are way much bigger! :D

After experiencing some ED, I assumed that a lot of it had to do with my porn watching. I cut back almost completely, and my EQ jumped through the roof (even though my EQ was already high when no women were involved). However, I also started kegeling when I cut out porn, so I don’t know which had a bigger effect on the EQ rise.

I think porn is bad if you are using it to escape from real sex. If you only masturbate to buff dudes with huge dongs banging amazing looking women with perfect bodies but the only sex you get in real life is missionary with your overweight and slightly unattractive wife you might find that you’re just not quite as turned on (and I’ve been there). That’s when you should put porn to the side and focus on the sex you actually get to have :)

I think part of what your problem is lies not really in just watching porn but what you sincerely find attractive. Personally, I’ve never had it for blonds. I never once found them attractive back in high-school. The same thing goes for the body type. I used to only think skinny chicks with a pretty face could turn me on. But if you sit back and do some thinking and start to figure yourself out, you’ll probably find your tastes are as varied as they come.

If you’re strictly watching porn of only skinny girls with huge implants then chances are you need to widen your eyes to what’s around you. Sure maybe that chick is what floats your boat and would be your go-to choice, but you can’t honestly say you’ve never seen some thick thighs that you would love to bury either one of your heads in, or that you’ve never seen girls that don’t fit a “set” look that you can find attractive. My tastes in women in real life and on film are as varied as they come. They run the rainbow of looks, body size, shapes, backgrounds, and all that and more.

And really? You don’t have it in for chubby chicks? You don’t know what you’re missing.

I used to strictly think that handrail sized women were the top of the list but as I matured, I wised up to what is truly sexy. Don’t fall for the image magazine covers and most porn stereotypes want you to. They’ll have you believing that the skin of a woman should look so smooth it doesn’t have any pores, that it isn’t sexy if her hair isn’t bleach-white blond, or that she just won’t make the cut if she’s a pound over 110. That shit is for the birds.