How do you guys deal with the lack of privacy?

Privacy

It’s hard to give advice, because you didn’t say about your relations. If you have wife or live with girlfriend, then you can actually say about PE to them. Or try to find time in shower or any other situation. If you live with parents, then it’s not much different from masturbation. If you can find time for that, PE isn’t problem also. You can do it before sleep also. If you live with someone in your room (brother/sister or dorm) then it’s similar to situation with wife.

For the periods when I do not have privacy, I’ve established that I require an hour of solitude to start my day. This was no issue at all. The rest of the time I just tuck in.

I sacrifice an hour of xbox in the evening when wife and daughter have gone to bed, stretching and jelqing first as they are easier to get your pants up quick haha, then pumping when I definately know the missus is asleep. she laughed at the thought of an extender so having a big tube attatched to my knob she would die laughing I think

I began PE training during vacations, and it was hard to hide it from my wife. After 2 weeks I decided to tell her, she understood and supports me now.

I guess is how your family environment is.

Being married with a family, I MAKE time. I do my routine in the mornings when the kids and wife are gone before work. When I was commuting, I would do my stretches in my car (very cleverly so as no one would notice) pulling myself downwards and holding the stretch and again side to side. I make the most of everytime I can get some pe in. At night, I will do my session after the wife has fallen asleep. To other married guys - take the opportunity with the family is running errands like shopping etc. to do some edging quality time. It’s funny - I am sure other married guys can relate - my wife drove up an hour before she was expected and I was edging in the study in the buff. Dudes, I bet I beat a world record on getting dressed business casual!

It’s tricky still living at home, my mom probably thinks I am jerking off, numerous close calls this year and between 2014-15 when I jelq’ed for a year.

Sadly I’ve spent most of my 20s unemployed living at my mom’s house which has held my life back in all sorts of ways.

I’ve had many a close call before. A massive commotion just as she walks up the steps to my door must sound pretty suspicious!

During periods of unemployment, jelqing makes me feel like I am doing something positive though. It gives me something to plug away at and keep me feeling good about myself.

Married with family.. I wake up really early like 3:30 am worst case 4 am to get my PE in. I then hit the gym early on like 5am and then head back get one more session in the bathroom during shower and off to work. Added in the second session by sneaking into the bathroom in the evenings when family watches TV or so.. My wife is not so supportive of PE she thinks I am weird to make my dick big but we men know we have some body shaming issues too or body enhancing issues.. So here we go - I am on it and will go on until I reach my goal. I relate this to muscle on the body and muscle on the dick :)

Live with my soon to be wife, she kinda knows about PE but doesn’t wanna know I do it. I guess her ex was into it too and it would make her mad at time. So she told me to keep her out of it. But it’s my body and doesn’t care what I do with it!!

But she works in the morning so I got a few hours to run and do PE. Pump and clamp for and hour then 30 mins of jelqs. Then I stretch for about 40 to an hour in my truck while driving. Its lifted with tinted windows no one can see anything. And I leave a rice sock in the window for heat.

It’s about making PE part of your life if you want gains.

I get up early when my wife is sleeping and do 30- 40 minutes and again at night when she is in bed. I think if you explain to her or people just the basics( don’t go into great detail) of what you are doing and it doesn’t involve them you just need a little time and privacy you will find a lot of women are very accepting of it.

I agree. My wife knowing that I PE and respecting when I do it has been a critical component to my progress in PE.

I agree. I don’t believe in hiding it. Keep it simple and most will be on board.

Yeah my women doesn’t care just don’t bug her to help or takes time away we can be spending together. What does it matter then.

Wow, thanks for all of the tips. I’m a new member (as of 1-2 hours) and just started my first thread. These are all great ideas, and have really helped me because I was thinking that I needed to set aside 5-6 hours to see results. This has stopped me from starting because I have felt unable to set aside this amount of time. Great motivation, guys! 1-2 hours a day, starting out is all that is needed!

I do all my PE in the bath room or in bed at night next to my sleeping wife. I have ED so she thinks my pumping equipment is used to overcome ED.