Originally Posted by dyablo
And by the record I think I wont have sex until I’m over 6.8 nbp and 5.3 in base girth, but that is just me.
That’s not just you.
It seems to be a common enough reaction to performance anxiety, size concern, and -dare I say it?- virginity; your thought applies any or all of the above.
You should know that there is no reason whatsoever for you to hold back.
Women will be responding to YOU; your penis is just part of the package. There are a few size queens out there, but you don’t have to date someone if they turn out to be so shallow-minded.
By and large if a woman is into to you, your size will not be a barrier (even if you were considerably smaller than you are). Similarly, if you have the biggest dick in the world, or are magically blessed with a given woman’s ideal size (whatever that may be), if she’s not into you the point is moot.
You need to hear this: this is a time for you to go out and find women and have some fun with them.
It’s time for you to overcome your anxieties, lose your virginity and enter into the wonderful world of sex. Just see what happens.
I should warn you, it’s not always wonderful, but if you’re smart about it, and make discerning choices about who you hook up with and why you can have a lot fun. And it’s good for you.
Even bad experiences (to a certain degree) can be informative.
Don’t hold yourself back. Most women are looking primarily for someone who understands them, they can trust and have fun with, and who they are attracted to.
A big penis is - at best - a bonus. For some a big penis presents a problem. And you never know what someone really wants or needs until you try it out. Oftentimes people don’t even know what they want or can enjoy themselves.
You have to find out. It’s what life’s all about. Don’t let life pass by without trying to find out.
You’ll only regret it later.