Re: Girth

That’s pretty close to the line there zomg. You might want to take the time to think before you hit the submit button next time.

I’m at 6 and have been with a few women in my time. I can honestly say that I have never had a woman have a hard time taking it.

I can only say 3.92 is mines.D:

They have to have some kind of warm-up. Even women who are on the larger side themselves need this.

In case anyone might be confused, the vagina is potential space. When not aroused they are closed. Any girth can hurt a woman if you’re not careful and she’s not ready. Any girth.

With 5.25” of girth you can wear Magnums. They won’t be super snug, but they’ll fit. 5.25” may not sound much different the 5” but it is. Even relatively small differences in girth are significant. It affects the overall volume more radically than similar increments in length. 5.25” is above average. 5.5” is actually large. At that size Magnums are a much better choice than standard condoms - which might work, but will have a greater chance of breaking. At 6” of girth you are firmly entering XL Magnum territory.

6” of girth is on the very large end of the spectrum. It is not impossible to have sex with this girth; it’s quite possible, as many members here can testify. Some women will indeed find it a bit more challenging at first, but let’s put it in perspective: they won’t have to spend weeks doing an Olympic training program or anything. It’s a very thick dick, but if they’re into you at all, and if you have any game at all, everyone can certainly have a bit of fun and excitement. Statistically, maybe two guys out of 100 have this girth. However, even so, there are lots of people out there who have that. In any major city with a population of millions there will be many, many thousands of men who are that big. I’m sure they get laid once in while, you know?

When it comes to what is necessary… the average size is just under 5” (around 4.85” or so - depending on the study). Believe me, you can get the job done and everyone can have a good time doing it with that girth too. As to what’s ideal? Tough question. Different women will tell you different things. And certainly different guys will. Be discerning. Check Para-Goomba’s Penis Size - The True Average thread. You’ll see lots of studies there, all with varying statistics, but you’ll be able to get an idea of what the range is. Most dicks are average. Average is much smaller than what the world of porn would have you believe.

I’ve been dildo shopping with lots of women. Most of them don’t reach for the monsters. The Rabbit is a very popular dildo. It’s about 5” X 4.5” with that tickler attachment positioned to hit the clit and beaded section to provide G spot stimulation. It’s not exactly a monster size; but it hits the right spots the right way.

As heterosexual man that’s your job too.

Make sure you have the right tool for the job, but also…learn the job. Every woman is different, true. And so too is every guy. If you strive to do the best you can with what you’ve got no one can fault for it; if they do to hell with them. There are other fish in the sea. Someone will like what you have to offer.

If I may, sam, I would suggest you talk to this woman of yours. Why is she saying the things she says? I think a frank discussion would likely reveal that it’s not really about size at all.

That’s just a guess from a total stranger who doesn’t know you (or your stats) or her at all, but something tells me that she’s pushing your buttons. People who do that do it for some reason, but rarely is that reason what they say it is upfront; what they say upfront is more of a rationalization more often than not.

Get to the root of it and you may just have a better chance of improving things than PE will afford you. I’m not knocking PE (why would I?), I’m just saying.

Holy cow… this has been blown out of proportion. My wife told me one single time that when we first started having sex she thought I had a small dick. In her very next sentence she told me that she doesn’t think that now. She’s been with one other guy in her whole life, and that was her previous husband. That’s all she knows about dick size. She doesn’t watch pornos, and she’s not cheating on me. She’s been telling me that she wants me to stop doing the PE because now sex is a little uncomfortable in a couple of positions. She’s not “using the issue of penis size”, as zomgpp put it, at all. It was a single comment on one day that only drug out of her by backing her into a corner.

Here is exactly what happened:

September 16, 2007 I said, “I know you must think my dick is small.”
She said. “No, I don’t.”
I said, ” I know your husband had a bigger dick than me because when we first started having sex you kept moving too far and my dick kept coming out.”
She said, “I don’t remember that. I love your dick, you have a wonderful dick.”
I said, “But you know it’s smaller than your ex’s, right?”
She said, “I don’t know that. I don’t remember how big his dick was. I love your dick.”
I was getting angry at this point because I thought she was lying to me, so I reminded her that we had both agreed to be completely honest with each other.
She paused for a few moments and then said, “When we first started dating, I remember thinking that you had a small dick. But I don’t think that now. I think you have a wonderful dick. It’s perfect!”
But, I was blown away by her words. I was expecting her to say that she thought my dick was smaller than her ex’s, (something that I already knew) but instead she said it was just plain small. That’s when I decided to go on a quest to get a big dick.

I don’t know how the fuck zomgpp got the idea that she was a “size queen”, or that she’s cheating on me, or domineering, or anything else. We have a great relationship and sex is outstanding. I probably should have just ignored his ignorant comment, but I felt the need to set the record straight. I thought this board had a rule against personal attacks.

Also, zomgpp, why don’t you put your money where your mouth is and donate to this forum? I have.

Uncalled for zomgpp. That’s a no no. You want to act like that head over to MOS. No loss by us. BTW speaking of donating, ThunderSS I’m just wondering if you guys ever received my donation. If not I will donate again.

When was it sd, and how much? PM me with details.

I didn’t mean to offend anyone. I was just offering my take on a story mentioned in this thread that I had read about. Based on another post above I am not the only one of this opinion, but w/e sorry. If we could be back on topic, that would be good. Thanks for the insight Mr Happy.

If I had an attachment tickler thing and beads I would not have to be bigger then 4.5 either.

Sam, this was the 3rd post on this topic.

This was 10th post. And then ZOM came along 3 hours later with:

Now, obviously ZOM should have used a little decorum before that post, but at first glance, I kinda felt the same thing.

It DID sound initially(and even after) like she was a SIZE queen. I can’t imagine a wife making a statement like that. Of course, you clarified the situation in your later post.

Now to ZOM,

How the hell is “anything under 5.5”” inadequate? This is what blows my mind about this site. There are so many experienced people on Thunders that repeat(ad nauseum) the ridiculous misconceptions about penis size.

Mr. Happy, Frenum Fellow will typically jump to the charge of what is avg. And what is BIG. And thank (insert deity) they do.

Now, on a personal note, I started at 7.25 * 5.0. I’m a professional musician(vocalist/writer.) I have spent most of my teen/adult life(now 35)getting ass that I probably would not have gotten otherwise. I have NEVER had a problem with girls complaining about dick size. In fact, I have received compliments(from time to time.)

ZOM, there really is no perfect size. I am now 5.25” in girth and my girlfriend gets tired jaw during oral(rather quick.) I have no doubt that she could handle a lot more girth vaginally, but I don’t want to ruin oral. If I decide to shoot for more, I will max out at 5.5”. Read TNT Jockey’s results if you would like.

So, to sum up( I’ve spent so much time grabbing quotes, editing, re-writing and trying not to look like an ass, that I’ve lost my original point,) don’t worry about inches vs. Inadequacy. 5.5” is great. Less is great. More can be great.

That is just how I feel about MY penis. Maybe I have had poor sexual partners or maybe I just have body image issues, but this is the impression I get from my experience with my current size.

Honestly, if I reach 5.5” girth I would be the happiest guy on Earth.

On a personal note, johnny9, is your GF petite (if you don’t mind answering). I am 5’10” tall and tend to go for girls over 5’6”, maybe taller girls need bigger? I don’t know, I’m just rambling now. Thanks for the reply.

ZOM, not at all. She is close to 5’9. She is also on the “healthy” side(I love a big ass.) I am a little over 6’.

I will tell you that she is a MASTER of the female kegel. She can grip me like a glove and I often have to tell her to just relax because I will pop too soon.

As far as PE, I started doing it as a curiosity(not because I had penis issues.) I honestly didn’t have a fucking clue about Avg. Girth sizes and actually thought I was doing pretty well in that area. In an ironic way, this site actually gave me a minor complex about my friggin’ size.

But after a year and half of tugging, clamping and jelqing, I have pretty much retired. I am now 8 1/4” * 5 1/4”. My dick is big and I am very happy this crazy experiment worked. I wanted to add a little more girth, but am having a very hard time giving a flip about creating a bigger member.

Best of luck ZOM and will be happy to help any way I can.

(I love a big ass.)

I feel you there Johnny.

I have to ask is you 8.25 bone pressed or not ?

Bowdoc, yes it is bp measurement. I should note(as I did somewhere forever ago) that I used to be an avid marathoner w/ extreme low body fat levels. Over the last couple of years I’ve gained 30-40 pounds.

I can tell you that when “ripped,” you don’t need a HUGE one to look big. My nbp now is close to what it was before PE. I am trying to get off my ass and drop the weight so I can really appreciate the growth(10 pds down.)

I would seriously suggest cutting weight/getting in shape/ whatever to really bring out the best. I think visually there is also the proportion of stomach, ass, legs being smaller that, added w/ minimal fat pad, give the illusion of a bigger dick.

I dated a girl for year or so in my early twenties. At the time, I was lifting and kinda bulky. Years later we got back together, and as I was shredded from running. The first words out of her mouth when she saw me naked were, “Jesus, you’re huge. I don’t remember you being that big.” That was the first time I had ever considered a correlation between body fat and dick size. After that, I’ve had comments from women about my size, but only when I was ripped(I’ve floated in and out of shape as I’ve gotten older.)

And yes, I love a big ass!