Realistic Thoughts and Mental Health

About me: 29, been with 30-40 women including a current long term girlfriend. Most of my life: 5.75x5.5. Currently: 6.25x5.5. Reasons for PE: I like taking care of all parts of my body. PE has increased my size but more importantly, given me excellent EQ and better stamina.

More important than all of that: I lead a happy and successful non-sex related life.

I see a lot of these threads, here and elsewhere:

“Not every women I’ve been with said I’m huge! I must be small.”

“Someone called me small. I have a tiny pecker.”

People: there are reams of penis size data for you to examine. The reactions of a handful of women or men do not invalidate that.

Second, this is entirely partner specific. There are women who will chat with their friends about your size, and there are some who never would. There are some who want to make you feel huge and say nice things, and there are some who may love sex with you but would never considering commenting on your penis.

Stop basing your reality on porn and the anecdotes of strangers on the internet (like me hehe).

My opinion: base your PE goals on hard data (EG the website calcsd) and your own personal measuring. Everything else is noise. Take emotion out of this. Do your exercise, calculate your stats, adjust your workout if needed, and move on with your life.

My other opinion:

If you are near average or above, but you “won’t be happy” unless you are bigger, you should not be on a PE website as it will further deteriorate your mental health. I don’t mean this in a cruel way, but you should consider your mental health >>> penis size. Get a therapist and forget about PE. You wouldn’t tell an anorexic person to go to a weight loss site, would you?