Serious question

Well, for me, the right state of mind for anything is always know what you are doing, why are you doing it and never give up until you reach your goal.Goal always must be realistic and not imaginary. There are things people can do and things they can’t do.

Here is what I would do if I were you. From the begining.

What’s bothering me? I am not satisfied with my penis size. That’s a statement, a true situation. What can I do about that? I will look into it. Wait…what’s this? PE? Let’s see…Lurk for a while. Is it trustworthy..Hmm, PE makes your dick bigger and if it doesn’t at least it gives you rock hard boners which all women love regardless of size and keeps your dick healthy for life. Free stuff, many vets to ask questions. That’s it. I ‘ll give it a shot. Many say that first gains will come in about a year, a year and a half. 1 inch in length and up to 0.5 in girth. I ‘ll take that. Also, versatile. I can get to my goal in many ways. That’s it. I am starting tomorrow and won’t stop for a year.

I am lightening the mood here but in short always the rigth state of mind in anything is: problem, goal, search solution, find solution, apply solution, commit till the end, be versatile on the way.

Learn to do this like a machine in all aspects of life. I did. It makes life a lot easier. Control your emotions. Apply clean dry logic to anything. Be heartless when you are dealing with a problem in your life. Beat the crap out of it.

The word problem co-exists with the word solution and vice versa. There can not be the one without the other.And we are men. Men solve anything that gets in their way.

In my humble opinion if you start thinking like that, own it, you will take confidence to another level and you will never have to worry about anything too much. And once people realize that you are a problem solver they will come to you, they will ask for your advice, they will trust you, respect you and guess what… that will give you max confidence.

Combine that with a big dick, which you can easily achieve, since you have found this forum and pretty much you don’t have to worry about anything in life. Especially women. They will be wet just by looking at you. Cause women know. They always know what a good man is made of. Confident, solid, smart….. with a big dick.

Start PE. Yesterday.

I receive all you had said.
It will be implemented like I said at the beginning.

I was wondering what you had in mind when you said:
“Especially women. They will be wet just by looking at you. Cause women know.
They always know what a good man is made of. Confident, solid, smart.. With a big dick.”
What did you mean when you said that? Especially when you said “cause women know.”
And when you said “They always know what a good man is made of.. With a big dick.”
Could a good man be confident solid smart with a little dick and still be seen as good?

Women know even less about men than they do about themselves so stop having your masculinity defined by them.

Women have a natural instict to spot good men. Feel free to disagree, but I strongly believe that. A woman can walk into a room, check all the guys in seconds and immediately know who is best for her.

Men also have a natural instict. We know if a woman is capable to be a good mother to our children or is just for having a good time.

As always all opinions are respected by me.

By the way a man with a small penis can be seen as a good man by women only if he has other qualities to trade for. Which means that he has to be super confident, super smart, rich, or with an extremely good sense of humor.

In cases like that a man must drag any other values to the max.

That’s what I think. And I am not even saying I am right about it. That’s what life taught me and that is my opinion.

So only a woman defines what a “good man” is?

Lol if a smaller man has to be extremely this or that, then apparently is a bad thing?

DomXZ you got a point

No, not at all. All I am saying is that women define what a good man for THEM is, in a very different way than we men do.

Men value other things than women. Think of this. If you want to know about a man you ask other men about him. You rarely depend to what women will say. It’s because our brains are different.

Men evaluate other men very acuratelly.It’ s because we value the really important things. Integrity, manners, commitment, persistence, friendship, knowledge, loyalty, logic etc.

Women value good men in a completely different way. They value them according only to their needs and wants. Which are all the things I allready mentioned. Their brain is wired like this. Women don’t give a fuck if a man is a good friend to his friends. Actually, they hate that.Women don’t value logic. In fact in many cases, they don’t understand it. They are wired differently.

So when I say that a woman knows what a good man is made of, I mean a good man for them and only them.

Men are objective. Women rarely are.

I hope I explained it better. I could explain it more but I am worried that I won’t be able to manage because my english isn’t that good.