Sex positions

My partner and I are going to be hooking up at the end of the month and I’m just curious what the best position is?

I’ve only had sex with one other girl, and we only did once then we broke up.. And the sex with her wasn’t amazing either. My new girlfriend has had two previous partners so I want to make the first time with me a very memorable one. What’cha think? (I’m 21 too, and we’re both very athletic if that helps)

Pre-marital sex…I remember those days fondly. Enjoy it now.

In this case I think the KISS philosophy is critical. Keep it simple, stupid. Leave the bungee swing in the closet and focus on the fundamentals…kissing, touching, foreplay. As far as positions, I think anything beyond missionary, doggy and cowgirl are probably pushing it. Unless she asks to swing from the chandelier, stick with the basics.

Okay thanks man - I know she’s done hand cuffs before with her previous boyfriend and she asks how much I’d like to experiment so we’ll see I guess.. I will keep it simple, probably missionary since we’ve been in that position many times before just not actually having sex.

I don’t know. The flying camel looks like a whole lot of fun. Just make sure you make the noise. I hear it an essential part of the position.

Flying Camel

Wow.. The flying camel.. I’m probably a bit to newbie’ish for something like that but it looks hilarious. That’s some deep penetration.

Clothes off.
Face & Tummy Down.
Ass Up.
End of Story.

Make sure she does not talk too much, it generally ruins the moment. Moaning and Swearing are acceptable, yapping is not.

S&G do you do this with all your girls or just the fat ones?

Also, my advice would be to stick to the basics.

789, all of them. In fact my wife knows that is a mandatory. I just don’t have time to deal with this bullshit. :)

That’s what I’m here for, to help the youngsters.

With all due respect, having all of three lovers between you both, the basics are enough of an experimental set for a good while yet. Just take it slow and try not to pop before you stick it in- in fact, if that is a concern for you then choke your chicken before you hook up and she’ll be amazed at your self control.

Although at your age your refractory period is so brief that if you use a rubber she may not even know you popped.

You are at D-day minus ten- use the time to learn about what women like in bed [and gonzo probably ain’t it at this stage in your respective lives]- search for sites that cater to women’s sexual plaints so that you know what NOT to do! I started reading my mom’s Cosmos alongside my dad’s Penthouses when I was eleven, so by the time I actually got my hands on a real live girl I had an idea how things could go.

Head over to the stripperweb.com and start a thread inquiring of the girls what THEY like in bed. Unlike what women say that they want in a mate, a date or a lover, they generally know what they want in the sack.

Good lord, I’m with stiffy on this one, I envy you all that you have on front of you.

Just ask her what positions she wants to do
The first time I had sex w/ my girl, I asked her if she wanted a ride and she was all for that
2nd time I had sex with her, she wanted me on top

Don’t be afraid to ask

For those of us who fall into the average size range length-wise, some suggestions:

When doing doggy, keep one knee on the bed and the other leg bent with your foot on the bed - lets you get deeper.
If your girl is into deep penetration, avoid spooning.
Missionary with legs over the shoulders is good if you can support your weight on your arms - you can get some good deep thrusting in.
Doggy style standing up can be tricky since the relatively shallow penetration ( if she is standing almost upright ) doesn’t allow for a very effective thrusting motion, though G-Spot stimulation is possible.
If she’s on top, keep your hands on her hips so she doesn’t pull away too far. If she does it can be very f*ing painful if her bone comes down on your cock.

These are just a few things I thought of straight away, Im sure those who are more experienced than me can be of more help.

But yeah as CODEMP says, there’s no harm in asking - you can ask playfully over the next few days what she likes - this could save some awkwardness (having to ask) on the night and will probably turn her on even more if you take the lead.

I’m sure others will chime in.

How many positions do you all like to use in one session?

I’ve only had sex twice, but I’ve only done:
Missionary
Girl on top facing towards you
Spoons
Standing up with the girl legs wrapped around your waist
Wheelbarrow, except w/ her laying on a couch (sofa)

Edited: depends on our time frame, but I’ve used atleast 3

EEHHHHH!! [Wrong answer buzzer noise]
You do not ASK anything, you are the man, you do.

[That does not mean that you don’t pay attention to her wants, just that you don’t “ASK” her- HUUUGE mood killer]

You will though need to put out your antennae [?] and PAY ATTENTION to her biofeedback cues.
If she is grooving and telling you she is close to the edge DO NOT CHANGE ANYTHING!- what you were doing is what was working, don’t fuck it up.
If she isn’t grooving, then shift yourselves into the next logical position- you shouldn’t even need to pull out and “shift”- that will kill your flow if you get in the habit.
Relax and enjoy and think of copulation as dancing for fun to music without choreography [sorry, had a legit dancer fetish twenty year ago in COLLEGE- Jayzus I’m old- or at least no longer young]

Here’s the deal brother, at the risk of seeming condescending:

Don’t “plan” ahead- it won’t work the way you think it will.

Different position aren’t “better”, they’re just different and suited for different uses- think timberlands for a track meet- not so much.

Toys are just that- “toys”- and like sprinkles on ice cream, they are an afterthought. Like a spinning back-fist in muay thai, toys are a nice finisher, but without a comprehensive grasp of the basics [fundamentals according to Cru Milles], they are as a breeze to the trade-wind. Learn to eat the pink taco. Scratch that. Love to eat the pink taco. This is your hole card. If you have made her eyes roll back three times eating her out, then your size really doesn’t matter that much.

Make your woman’s [apologies to westLA] experience your priority- your nut will pop no matter what [then again, my ego stroke from my partner’s experience IS my nut]

Don’t worry so much about impressing your partner with your size or creativity- impress her with your degree of engagement! Trust me, it’ll carry her through.

Size alone won’t make her your sex serf, but skill alone will. High average to start, I learned that my least positive copulations were those that I didn’t focus on the quality of MY performance.

Bro’, here’s the deal- getting her into your bed and keeping here in your bed are utterly different objectives. Truly, any idiot with a rap can bag a 9.8+.

I have. And while my game may be strong, there are limitations.

It takes skill and dedication to keep your 6.6+.

I’m not the only gay guy here, just the most vocal. :D This is actually a good thought. If you can provide your partner with a fun/nice/happy/good time, then you’ll have one, too.