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I have done the work I’m not trying to be rude its just I have searched this forum looking to see if anyone suffers from cold flaccid and still gained I can’t find it so I’m asking for help to see if anyone else knows if there is someone ok?

1.I don’t know cold flaccid doesn’t seem very healthy.
2.No
3.yes 100 %
4.Not fully but majority of my problems is due to my size
5.It will help big time.

In the process of this but have been waiting months for appointments if I can even get one because of covid

Trust me very few if any of life’s challenges are linked to penis size.

I’d hold off on further PE. See a counselor and work on the things you think a larger penis will fix. At my size I found a larger penis didn’t fix a single thing I thought it would.

I’ve already seen a counselor we came to the conclusion my penis size is effecting my life lol yh but you already started with quite a big size so it wouldn’t make as much difference for you .

I’ve been with my girl for more than ten years we both love each other very much and we can tell eachother everything she has told me she can’t really enjoy penetration because she likes the feel of a big penis and she can only orgasm with a big penis , but she says it doesn’t matter because she loves me but this is very very depressing knowing this it ruins our sex life when we have sex it’s pretty much just for me to get off I want her to be able to enjoy penetration it’s no fun for me knowing she can’t really get into it and before you come at do foreplay etc she’s not really a foreplay person lol so I’m in a very annoying position I can’t pleasure the person I love properly this makes me very depressed.

It will be hard for you to understand why my size gets me really depressed because you have always had a big penis , but you must sort of understand? Because you must of wanted bigger at one time for some reason? Even though you were already big? Imagine 2 inches smaller than your starting size and 1 inch less girth? It honestly looks pathetic . We all know a big penis provides better sex life and we all know the power of a big dick , just the look of a small penis in a woman’s mouth or vagina looks pathetic.

Well said. I wish I would have followed that same advice years ago.

You had zero control over your penis size, and you shouldn’t feel bad for something you had no control over. I know that’s easier said than done, but it’s important to allow yourself that mercy.

Your brain is the most powerful sex toy in the world. Use it. It’s easy to think about sex as the mechanical act, but that’s honestly not the entire story in a relationship. You can get a woman half way to orgasm before you ever even touch below the waist. Why do you think 50 shades of grey was the best selling smut of all time? Those movies and books were not a big dick, but I promise millions of women got off to them.

i Thought it’s possible to increase size unless this is all a lie? But my girlfriend wants penetration lol she’s wants me to have a big penis I told her about I’m going to try get my penis bigger and she is excited for it to grow , because we are compatible in everyway except sex because of my size . She simply likes the look and feel of a big penis doesn’t matter if I make her orgasm in other ways I have made her orgasm from fingering and rubbing her clit but she said it doesn’t even compare to how a big penis inside her feels…

Thanks for trying to help but it sounds kind of hypocritical coming from someone who is increasing their penis size lol if size doesn’t matter then why do you bother? You even started bigger than me .

Forget what I said at the top about is this a lie just read what you said properly thought you said I have no control over my penis size

The goal post keeps getting moved in this conversation so I’ll lay it out plainly as I see it, and if I’m wrong I’m sure someone will let me know.

1) You are emphasizing a cold flaccid penis. This could be a sign of a health issue, injury, or other concern that PE could make worse and requires a doctor. PE carries risk. Many people have permanently injured their dicks, ability to become erect, or flat out ruined their dicks with surgery. All of that is plainly stated on this sites archives.

2) You appear to have pathological thinking around your circulation and size, as you’ve stated your long term lover wants big dick penetration and you feel inadequate to the point of…dare I say anguish?

3) You question the efficacy of PE, which no one has directly confirmed to you. If you’ve spent 6 weeks really looking at the forums here I think you’d already know it does work, but one size doesn’t fit all. There are fast gainers, slow gainers, and everything between. No one can tell you what you’ll be. But what we are trying to impress upon you is that you appear to be at risk of injury for two reasons. You have a potential physical issue with your circulation, and you have high anxiety and mania surrounding your penis size. Both are quick paths to injury and regret. We would rather see you not PE than live a lifetime of regret from an emotional decision to engage in dangerous penis enlargement activities.

To summarize, we don’t want to see you hurt. If you are cleared by a doc, and get your mind right, you can definitely add some size to your penis here. If you can’t do both of those, you’re likely a candidate for desperation lead trauma.

I don’t know how else I can help, but please just take it slow.

Awesome post! Couldn’t agree more.

The only thing I would add is that the OP really should have a sit down with his GF and explain to her how much it’s affecting him that he feels that he can’t please her sexually unless he grows a big dick.

That somehow needs to change, and it’s up to both of them.

Probably not what you want to hear, but if you have a woman who loves you, you are very lucky. It will take time to grow. In the meantime, find ways of incorporating sex toys in a fun way. They sell realistic looking penis sleeves which is put over your penis to give it more length and girth. I can imagine that you would not feel the physical pleasure, however, it might help you feel better psychologically that you are filling her up more. Not an easy topic.

Jiing. Click on «thunders place» at the top of the page. Scroll down until you find the members only pages, and click on the «progress and pictures» page and find postings with pictures. You will find that all sizes have gained.

If your penis is cold you’ll need to start using a heat pad or a warm rice sock, a cloth soaked in hot water, or something. Good luck.

PE has worked for me.

That’s a reward. What makes my life amazing, isn’t what I am. It is what I do every fuckin day out of my life. Out of what I contribute to spin society’s wheel. I love sports cars. I love having strong wide shoulders and a fat piece o meat dangling round.

Ego has a huge role in life. Listen to it or get rid of it. Usually getting rid, sets you free.

done that I don’t want to look at massive dicks hench why I am asking of anyone has any progress pictures with smaller sizes gaining .. I don’t want to just click on a thread and then a massive dick pops up

just no lol I want to use my dick to pleasure her that’s just depressing.