Welcome to Thunder’s Place Anthony!
Actually, I agree with you. When you read the forum you get the impression that most of the guys who are here are already big. However, if you take a close look at the survey in the Data page, you’ll notice that the distribution of sizes is about the same as what most studies produce, including average size.
My personal opinion is that “smaller” guys shy away from posting, specially in the pictures forum. I don’t know whether this is because they fear a negative reaction from the community (an unfounded fear) or are simply afraid to participate. On the other hand, larger guys may feel more confident to participate.
Whatever the explanation, it’s important that everyone takes an active role in the forum and that’s why your post (and all the future ones) is so important to us. Please feel at home and take advantage of all the resources that Thunder’s has available to you. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, do your homework reading the tons of vaulable material provided here and be sure the community will be more than happy to help you in your PE endeavour.:)
Lots of success and thank you,
PS: Is that 4” BP (Bone Pressed) or NBP (Not Bone Pressed)? What’s your girth?