YOU shouldn’t be erect at all. If you notice starting to get erect, wait for it to subside and continue later. Erect stretching is connected to several serious injuries in past. That being said, I remember some experimenting with it few years back. I can’t remember them reporting any results ergo it is hardly worth the risk, especially for a new guy who still isn’t aware of his limits.
Once you get used to PEing, it’ll get easier to stay flaccid, don’t worry. Masturbating for a release is handy too, just don’t do it the same day before doing PE.
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And by the way… The search is your friend. ;)
"Be aware that there are several schools of thought here as well. Some seem to go with the hard and heavy approach. The sessions are brutal. You can hear them talking to their dick: You better grow mofo or I will punish you even harder tomorrow! Others seem to favor a more tender approach. Always listening to what their member is saying while massaging it gently and singing to it with a soft voice. If it is moody and not happy with new behavior, they always listen and are very understanding."
