Starting The Journey Late

Hi all

I’m just starting my PE journey. I had always, like many been unsatisfied with the size of my sausage, however I’d always been able to satisfy my partners multiple times before I was finished so tried not to worry about it.

Fast forward and I’m now 39 happily married and just had a baby. Problem is, post baby I can’t feel much during sex and the Mrs isn’t getting off frequently.

I decided it was time to get the huge cock I had always dreamed of and I purchased the phallosan. I’ve been using it for a month and seen a little gain already. The wife has also mentioned she feels it deeper and fuller.

I decided to add the bath mate hydro max which has not arrived yet. Due to the way my day is set up I would use it at night before bed and I only use the phallosan during the day.

For those that have used both, is this a good arrangement? Would I benefit more doing the bath mate in the AM and then wearing the Phallosan all day?

Currently using it 6 days a week at about 12 hours a day.

I’ve read through the newbie section, not going to go crazy and start hanging or clamping or anything yet. Saw a good post about heavy vs light to moderate force, not sure what the phallosan and the plus edition qualify as in terms of force.

Starting info

BPEL 6”
MEG 5”

Target

BPEL 8”
MEG 6”

I hope this is ok for me to ask, because I’m just curious.

Does your wife know about you doing PE, and did she tell you that you feel fuller and longer, or did you ask her about this first and then she said so?

Would you kindly be able to say or estimate your BPEL x MSEG gains after 1 month of extender wear, as well as the hours per day you used it for?

Finally, did you do anything else during that month, like jelq, or only extender wear.

Cheers

Hi C,
I’m thinking about both your sexual satisfaction, I’d like to share my own experience. My wife has 2 children from a previous marriage. She is Very “wide” inside. She has mentioned my gains, feeling more and fuller. I’m above average size and she takes me all the way in, There is definitely a potential for change in childbirth. I think focusing on both your needs is a great idea.. Try different positions and heck yes. PE safely and enjoy!

First of all, congratulations with your baby mate and your wife supporting you is a huge ++ for PE.

In regards with your question, the difference between device and manual is you can measure it. Meaning, you can gauge whether you’re ‘overworking’ your penis or not with numbers. From there, you can intensify or minimise your routine.

With manuals, you can’t really measure your tension as it varies with your hand pulls and pressure. You can only adjust the ‘tension; with time and number of strokes.

In my personal opinion, as long as sex is not hindered. You can do whatever you want. And yes with advanced techniques such as clamp and hang, those are for later use. I mean like a year or two of PE. In summary, do not rush it. Take your time to learn. Take it step-bystep. Loads of info here in thundersplace, educate yourself first.

She seems to be very supportive of the process as well.

No problem asking mate :)

I told my wife, we discussed it after a couple of months post birth and us both feeling sexually unsatisfied. She initially said she was happy with it and it wasn’t an issue but I said I really wanted us to feel the way we did before. I didn’t want to have to hide doing it as it’s a cumbersome device to wear all day and spending 30 mins in the shower is unusual for me 😂

It’s been about a month, maybe 5 weeks since I started, I didn’t ask my wife for any feedback as I wasn’t expecting anything noticeable until say the 6 month mark. The other night she jumped on top and was moaning a lot more, I could feel my head rubbing up against something again. Then to my joy she announced she was cumming and afterwards told me it felt like it was at the end and she felt fuller.

I measured a couple of days ago as well, I was trying not to and to measure every 2 months to not be disappointed. I seem to have gained 0.4 inches BPEL but nothing MSEG. I figure part or all of this could be due to stronger erections from
The improved blood flow as well. But it’s definitely bigger than I have been, more is visible outside of my hand when holding it erect.

I did a little jelq work for the first week but actually dropped that as I was too tender to wear the extender.

With the extender, I’m using the plus traction rods to get a big stretch, almost painful, just for an hour at night, on top of the lower all day traction. I’m up to wearing it about 12-14 hours a day 6 days a week with Sundays off. I’m at the yellow tension setting as green does not feel like it’s doing anything.

The only downside of the device seems to be a bit of soreness at the 1.5 hour point needing an adjustment of the ring. It also makes me feel like I need to piss every 1.5 hours.

I’d recommend continuing what you’re doing; stretching before pumping.

It’s harder to stretch a pumped-up cock and one of the things that pumping does is to “solidify” gains. A good half hour in the pump every day will really make a difference.

Hi all

I’m just starting my PE journey. I had always, like many been unsatisfied with the size of my sausage, however I’d always been able to satisfy my partners multiple times before I was finished so tried not to worry about it.

Fast forward and I’m now 39 happily married and just had a baby. Problem is, post baby I can’t feel much during sex and the Mrs isn’t getting off frequently.

I decided it was time to get the huge cock I had always dreamed of and I purchased the phallosan. I’ve been using it for a month and seen a little gain already. The wife has also mentioned she feels it deeper and fuller.

I decided to add the bath mate hydro max which has not arrived yet. Due to the way my day is set up I would use it at night before bed and I only use the phallosan during the day.

For those that have used both, is this a good arrangement? Would I benefit more doing the bath mate in the AM and then wearing the Phallosan all day?

Currently using it 6 days a week at about 12 hours a day.

I’ve read through the newbie section, not going to go crazy and start hanging or clamping or anything yet. Saw a good post about heavy vs light to moderate force, not sure what the phallosan and the plus edition qualify as in terms of force.

Starting info

BPEL 6”
MEG 5”

Target

BPEL 8”
MEG 6”