Talking about PE in real life? (Page 2)

12-09-2021, 10:54 AM

Spectral88

Originally Posted by Lookinforgirth

Unfortunately for me, no one. I know my wife knows, because she caught me red handed pumping while I was shaving, about 2 months ago. She just shook her head and walked out of the bathroom. Also probably, 2 years ago I left 2 clamps on the tub after showering/clamping. She showered the next morning. I know she saw them, but never said a word.
I wish it wasn’t this way, but she’s told me many a times she doesn’t care about size. But, I can tell a difference in her reactions during sex, compared to when we first got together. And the last couple times we’ve had sex, I’ve actually pumped during the foreplay, put the ring on, and I know I’m thicker than ever before and she loves it! I’ve started to do that, one for the pleasure and to hopefully force the honest talk about PE, that should happen. I just don’t start it because I know she will think I’m crazy/stupid.

When I first got in PE I had the same thing happen to me. My wife walked in on me pumping in the shower. Thankfully she apologized, and said she was sorry for disrupting my privacy. After that, I got into extending and hanging, and I was open with her about what I was doing.

To those of you who have a wife unsure of PE, my wife was the same way but now she is good with it. She tells me that size is not an issue, but she lets me do it regardless because it gives me more confidence.

12-09-2021, 05:39 PM

AndyJ

Compared to all the breast implants, tummy tucks, facelifts, nose jobs, vaginal tightening, labia restructuring, and anal bleaching, all promoted via TV, “social media”, and magazines, a little PE seems pretty trivial. And it’s way cheaper than surgery.

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12-09-2021, 06:17 PM

train spot

I will never tell anybody about PE anymore.

I told a few friends, the result was upsetting.

I actually told a guy whom I knew for certain told me about it when we were teenagers. He was acting like he didn’t remember a word, made me feel awkward AF. I have a few friends that died, one of them, I think, would have loved to hear about it, he had something similar to PMMA injections done while institutionalized early in his life, he killed himself in his 40s, don’t know the reason exactly.

I hate people since 2020, I can’t even imagine myself talking about this with someone in public. They would probably turn it against me and enforce vaccination for covid or something. That’s all there is in a common human brain nowadays, covid vaccination. Why would anyone even want to tell these people about PE ? F them!

12-09-2021, 06:40 PM

Unscented1

Tried talking with my ex-wife about it when we were still together. Ended up being a bad idea. While she was a size queen, she was insecure and thought I was doing it to get other women. Or that I would end up sleeping around once I became more confident. In the end, and totally unrelated to the PE thing, I realized she probably never loved me to begin with, and that’s why meaningful conversations about anything else were always so difficult. But no one should feel they have to hide something like this from their SO. Communication is important.