I am new to PE. Mainly started because I was having EQ issues from some other health issues. I also curve to the left and that seemed to be getting worse so I bought a bathmate and sizegenetics and have been doing manual stretch & jelqing.
The first few times the size genetics was uncomfortable and basically required me to stand in one place or sit still. After about a month it became much more comfortable. I set a timer for 30 minutes and always loosen and reapply after the timer goes off. I usually keep it off for about 2 minutes so I get all the blood back in penis because, as others have mentioned, it can start to numb and restrict blood flow and turn purple. If I am doing something I just kill the timer and keep wearing until I am done as long as it doesn’t hurt and isn’t numb. I never go over an hour without a break. The first dozen tries I hated it and regretted it. Around the 15th use I seemed to turn a corner and it got way more manageable.
One thing that I think helped is drastically reducing the tension. As long as it is steadily pulling I am happy. I stopped trying to stretch it a lot each session and that allows me to lower pressure holding penis in which allows more blood flow.
The curve seems to be getting better. I think it was mainly tight ligaments and those are loosening. The range of motion in my penis is already much better. Initially if I tried pointing it up or too far right while stretched it was painful. Now I seem to have The same mobility left and right and up is nearly as flexible as pointing down.
The jelq and pumping seems to be drastically improving EQ. Initially I had to take 25 mg of Sildenafil to get full erection for pumping. Again, this was initially caused by other health issues but once you get ED fears it becomes a mind game. I think just the act of jelquing for 45 minutes at a time with a nice strong erection was a huge mental boost. I also stopped allowing myself any non sex ejaculation so that I had more intensity when the time was right (I am well into my 40s). I am now less strict with this but still pay attention to how often I am cumming. Certainly I don’t masturbate when I expect the gf to stay over. My sex drive is way up now that EQ is returning.
Everything combined has made a huge difference in EQ and stamina. I seem to have gained about .25-.50” in length but I think a significant amount of that was regaining what was lost from extended period of ED issues and high blood pressure.
Currently, if I want to be at my biggest, I will stretch for a bit then pump for 5 minutes then stretch some more then pump again. That typically gets me to the point that my erection For sex is nearly as large as when I am pumping, Especially if I am using sildenafil. I only use 25 mgs as anything more gives me a headache and I will never get off.
For me, the size genetics was worth the investment. Both the financial investment as well as the time investment to get used to it. My first two weeks I thought everyone who said they comfortably wore it all day long was full of crap. Now I am not so sure. Depending on your clothes and if you’re okay with someone noticing every now and then I guess it could be manageable. So far I only wear it at home or on long drives. I wear it in shorts, swears, or slacks. Commando at home but with boxers when driving. Terrified of being a wreck though.
Size genetics did a study and they indicate expected results should be as a percentage of starting length. This makes way more sense to me as 2” of growth is a 25% increase for an 8” penis but a 50% increase for a 4”. I believe their study, which was published in a medical journal (that is what convinced me to buy one) found an average of 29% growth in the first 6 months. I think that was roughly 500 hours of wear time at 4 hours per day. I do not think there was any real girth gains.
Good luck and feel free to ask any follow ups. Also, I bought those two because the initial place where I learned about PE was Good Looking Loser and they swear by those two devices. Guys there seem to report much smaller starting points but more growth (based on a study on this site indicating average size before PE of well over 6” EL).
I have no affiliation or connection to bathmate, size genetics or good looking loser.