To Please A Woman

I know this isn’t the place for this post but I don’t post very often so I’m only allowed to post here. I feel like there was a similar post here before but I can’t seem to find it or I can’t think of the right search terms.

We all want to increase our size, for various reasons but I think mostly for confidence and to please women. My girlfriend needs something with some good girth to orgasm. I’ve been practicing PE for a couple of years now, so I know it will take a lot of time before my girth has increased enough to make a difference. While I’m waiting for that to happen, what can I do in the meantime? What does everyone do here that can consistently make their partners orgasm. I’ve read countless books and watched many videos but nothing has really made a difference (other than the Sex God Method which helped a lot for confidence). I’d say I can make her cum with my hands 1 out of 5 times, and that still takes about an hour, sometimes more. My tongue doesn’t do anything for her. We’ve been together 5 years. She says she’s a squirter, she has for partners in the past but never with me. It’s been very frustrating for me, and for her. There’s been many times where we’ve been in the bedroom for a significant amount of time and it just isn’t going to happen for her and she gives up and then is irritated and frustrated. We generally have a good relationship and good sexual chemistry. I tend to really trust the advice of the members here, I’ve had a lot of success thanks to all of you. What do people here do to make their woman cum?

Looks like as I posted this, someone else posted the same question! I would delete this post if I had the power.

For me, oral sex is the sure fire way to make my wife orgasm. Once she has that orgasm anything else we do becomes icing on the cake so to speak.

That being said, there’s so many factors involved that you really need to talk with your partner about what they like and what makes them feel good. Perhaps she just needs to be in a better mental space when you’re having sex.. Is she relaxed, comfortable, aroused etc. IMO those things affect women much more than men.

What women like Hmmm. They like cock lol. Idk what it takes to please them really, they have a different imperative than boys I think.. That’s why I bought my girl a vibrator, so in case she doesn’t like my non GMO, human-flesh cock she can go fuck herself

I’m with Erock - After spooning my wife while giving her a back rub, which gets her hot and ready I move on to oral which brings on an orgasm. usually within ten minutes.

I think you can increase girth very significatively using clamping in certain way.

Okay, so if your girlfriend wants/needs something that you can’t actually provide because of the genetic lottery, you can easily give it to her by using something else. A lot of people try oral, hands, etc. But for me, I mentally get off thinking I have a big dick, so I chose to incorporate strap-ons. Yes, that is right. I wear a strap-on for my girl, and I can make her cum easily several times a session, every time. Some dudes aren’t okay with doing this (can’t feel anything physically, pride, etc) and some girls aren’t okay with this (feels different, less convenience) but for others this can be a great thing to ADD to the bedroom fun to ensure your girl is fully satisfied when all is said and done. Strap on a 9” and get some loose fitting boxers/briefs and push the dildo through the hole in the front of the underwear, then you’ll be hung with as much stamina as your physique allows.. She will be squirting in no time, trust me.

Once you’ve given her multiple intense orgasms from pounding her for however long you need to, she can and probably will love to finish you off. Or start foreplay by using your own to work her up, its all up to you.

Now for what I recommend. Easily the vac-you-lock harnesses and a Mr. Hankeys Toys dildo. A little pricey, but it works every single time and is high quality unlike stuff I’ve seen on Amazon. ( I have the rentman dildo in small and medium with the vac-you-lock hole added.)

Don’t mean to come off as a salesman or something because I have tried a lot of different ways before I found this. A lot of different ways that never came close and ended up costing a fortune.

The poster above me has the right idea but wrong execution. They make a product called a "cock sleeve" now. It will have the same effect as using a large strap-on but you will actually be able to enjoy it as well.

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Every woman is different, so you have to listen to her body language as you go, regardless of what you’re doing.

If fingering takes an hour, maybe you aren’t using enough foreplay before you get going. Do you guys watch porn together? I find that a good way to get both me and my wife going.

My favorite way to elicit was orgasms is by giving oral AND fingering at the same time.

If your gf likes girth, you can do a lot with your fingers to simulate girth or stretching in her vagina.

One of my favorite ways is to do the “come hither” movement on her g-spot with index finger bent upwards, while stimulating her cervix/a-spot with a straight middle finger.

When she’s almost ready to orgasm, it drives her wild.

Richard is spot on.

In addition, trust is the foundation and in this specific architecture, trust built around flirtation equals productivity.

As soon as we meet the girl we should begin showing her what fun is and tactfully letting her know just how beautiful she is.

This will open her up for you before you even get started;-)

LittleEngine is likewise spot on ;)

It starts way before you even get to the bedroom.

You have to make her feel like a goddess.

Also, going back to fingering and oral:

Make sure there is more than adequate lubrication before you finger her.

Either get her soaking wet, use lots of spit, or find a good-tasting body-compatible lube, and make sure not only your fingers, but also the back of your hand is lubricated. Chafing and sticking to her if your fingers/hand are dry can be very painful for her, and ruin any chance of orgasm.

Disclaimer: Post is for entertainment purposes only. Zero liability past, present, future. Still using the powerful 110v eroscill vibe 10 years later. Brand name was abbreviated.

A dab of minty toothpaste on the clitoris. Wear a helmet in case you get kicked in the face.

I don’t mean to be negative but…it takes an HOUR to get her off with your hand? Only works 20% of the time? Your TONGUE (usually vagina kryptonite) (aka the great equalizer) does NOTHING for her? She WAS a squirting mess for other guys?!? But never you? Dude. Either something is suddenly Wrong with her or she is NOT into you. 5 year relationship or not. Sorry. I’m no great lover now and I’m sure I wasn’t when I was 15 and started having sex. But no girl ever couldn’t get off from even an inexperienced tongue. Something’s REALLY wrong brother.

Wear a cockring. You will be a little bit bigger. I’m roughly .25” thicker when I wear a cockring.