To tell or not to tell

Hey guys,

I’m curious.. Does anyone here tell their partners about their “secret men’s (PE) Business” and if not, how do you explain being in the bathroom for 40 minutes at a time every night/morning?

Meditation? :rolleyes:

It would be really funny, “Mom, I might be late for dinner, I still have to watch my porn and do a PE session … “

I do it before my shower each day, but my dad always asks why I’m in the bathroom without the shower on for so long before I shower. I just tell him I’m ‘treating’ my face and he usually is fine with that. But sometimes I’ll turn the shower on before I’m done pe’ing so that he doesn’t get too suspicious and then the shower will be on for around 45 minutes total and he’ll make jokes about me showering really long.

But no, I havn’t told a single soul except you guys about my PE’ing :) .

Actually I think he was referring to a significant other, wife, GF, BF? etc.
Not his mama.

To which their are more than few threads about what’s become known as: Stealth PE’ing.

Me? Well I preferred to keep it stealth for the first year or year and a half. Then came the day I got busted by the wife (and kids) when I
accidently left my pump hanging from the shower head in the bathroom. I thought it was going to be more of deal than it was and I ended up having to reassure her it was NOT because she has had four kids. I was more embarrassed than anything. I felt like a teenager getting caught jacking off. There’s been no talk about it since, but she sure lets me know she enjoys the benefits of it in her own ways. It’s all good.

There’s been some good talk about it in the other threads. Some guys are into having their S.O.’s help, and others are taking it to their graves.
So you have both ends of the gamut considered. In the end, it’s really your own personal choice. But weigh that decision carefully as their may indeed be ramifications you haven’t yet considered. It might do some good to read some of the other threads about it around here.
Like most things related to PE, it’s been covered here already.

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That’s because the Ole’ joke amongst parents is; Yea, juniors in the shower wacking his wanker again. Going to make him pay the water bill soon if he keeps it up.

Now just bring a few good looking girls home and you’re dad will be ecstatic that your not gay.
If on the other hand you are gay ….. well, you’ll have to deal with that one on your own.

You are right RC, I misread partners as parents, sorry Storm.

Yes, I think I might keep the PE’ing secret just between us guys here however I’m finding it harder (pardon the pun) to hide as my girlfriend is always wanting to know why it takes me so long to shower.

I actually already take around 40 minutes for a normal shower and then by adding ANOTHER 40 minutes to my routine that means I’m in the bathroom for near an 1 1/2 hours a day!

With a 2+ hour a day training, I’m more than happy that my g/f knows about it :)

I told my wife the day I got my pump.

Actually, there are several posting members that have their SO also signed up here…

GM

She knows I have a pump. I’ve showed her what I look like with it on :)

But she doesn’t know I do exercises on a regular basis.

I actually told my girlfriend of 6 months about it, but I went about it in more of a, “hey I heard about this, you think theres’ any truth to it?” Then she got interested and it turned into a, “hey maybe you should try it and we can see if it works”.

I was living with her overseas in a dorm/apartment type environment, it was necessary for me to tell her somehow :)

I told my wife. She even helps me sometimes. When I first started over two years ago I kept it under cover laid off of PE for 6 months. When I decided to start up again, I told myself, no more hiding. I told my wife that some women want bigger tits, I want a bigger dick. She said that she was happy with what I already had, but was cool with it. She supports me and my dick.

Last night when I was having sex with my girl, in the beginning she suddenly asked me: “damn, have you been growing it?” .so I laughed and answered: “yeah, I’m watering it every day” lol.. But her comment got me thinking really positive and I think I will tell her about it some day in future, but not now, because I have been doing this only 2 months or so.

I haven’t told my wife or anyone about PE and I don’t intend to either.

I’m afraid it’ll have to be stealth PE untill I get busted or I get a huge dick.

I can imagine her now “how the hell!what the ****! so thats why you’ve been staying up late! “mmmm never mind” lmao.