Tongue on clitoris

Sometimes as I lick my wife’s clitoris and the clitoris is erect and stimulated it gives me a feeling of sucking a penis which takes me back to my youth and I ejaculate while she is still looking for her climax. Will wet jelqing help me to last longer?

Wait what?

Jelqing doesn’t really do much for premature ejaculation.

Edging and kegels is what you’re looking for.

It does for me because it desensitizes the skin so much.

Edging is terrible for me for some reason. I normally cum in a decent but not great amount of time(10-20 mins) but already a few times after edging earlier in the day i have cum in a few minutes. The last time was two days ago i edged for like 25 mins getting really close to the ponr a bunch of times. Took a shower and like two hours later GF wanted some and bam 2 minutes in and came.

Kegels and reverse kegels. They will help control and allow you to take the edge further. The reverse kegel is great for making you last longer. Then the standard kegel is excellent for holding it in until the last possible second.

Brilliant first post. Breathing techniques will help. Slow, even, deep breaths. Relax any muscle tension. You can go forever.

Awesome post. This reminded me of a thought I once had. I was with a girl that had a large clit and hood. This is the only girl that I ever really liked going down on because I had something to suck on. Does this mean I have gay tendencies even though I’m revolted by the thought of going down on a man. lmao

because you just asked that question, I’d say more then likely it could mean that. And if you were gay would that bother you? Because a person sexual preference doesn’t make one right or wrong.. You may like apples while I may not like apples but love Orange’s. We all have different tastes and likes.

So you’re ejaculating just with the thought of sucking a penis?

Then you have some bigger issue to deal with, which is your marriage.

It was a joke man. And I’m not gay or homophobic. But she did have a big clit.

was it? Either way doesn’t matter..

Kegels and reverse kegels will help with controlling ejaculation. As well as edging, for a lot of people.

I think this post just means you should be comfortable with your sexuality, if anything. When someone is sure where they stand, they can bet on it. If you know you are not gay, then it shouldn’t be an issue. If you ejaculate when doing it then awesome, you are aroused by her. If there’s a slight chance that it makes you question your sexuality, well then, perhaps you have some personal answers to find out for yourself.

Just know who you are and where you stand and there won’t be any uncertainty within yourself.

I personally love sucking woman’s clit, and making them go crazy (hence the name). It turns me on when they are turned on, iam naturally a pleaser. Am I gay? Most definitely not.

I was edging and watching porn when I got mallware . And it reminded me of my youth , about how I went to the mall and the security guard took me into the bathroom and said “this is how you don’t touch people” and I was like what? How do I find good website that doesn’t give mallwear

What I meant by edging to combat premature ejaculation is that if you practice edging on a regular basis: going right up to the point of no return without actually ejaculating, it translates directly into doing that while having sex. You learn your limit on your own so that when your partner is there, you can go up to it, without going over it.
Kegels are how you stop yourself from ejaculating when you get right up to your point of no return. Practicing both is how you defeat premature ejaculation.

Definitely don’t edge all day before having sex. Then you’ll definitely come too fast. Once you are able to control your orgasm however, edging all day before sex is a good way to make sure that when you do finally climax, the quantity will be larger than if you hadn’t edged.