Hmmm. You might want to PM Lil’ about your situation for his input. He’s always trying new things.
As for hanging, yeah it takes some time and definitely isn’t inconspicuous. It is also the best way to add length; that is, growth over time invested. Hanging isn’t what I’d call comfortable, but it isn’t torture, if that’s what you are imagining. It certainly is something you have to build up to. But I am concluding my first week, am on a two session per day schedule, and am loving it!!
Now assuming that hanging doesn’t work for you, there *are* some options to try.
First, jelqing and manual stretching are your best alternatives for length. Read up as much as you can on different variations and determine what you want to try as a start. You are going to really have to build up to some HEAVY (but let me stress SAFE) stretching.
It is also key that you find (well, it is for everyone but you have no margin for screwing up if you want to grow) the correct balance of rest and exercise. Another thing to research and look for input on. This is a big trial and error area. Make a PE LOG and that will help your analysis.
Now something I would try given your privacy situation is a post-workout stretch device, whether it be a tractionwrap or an all-day stretcher (ADS). My bet would be on the ADS as you need as much pull on your little dude as possible. Tractionwrap is better for post-hanging, and would definitely be a waste if you do it post-jelqing as your penis will deflate and the wrapping be rendered useless. You could use it after a stretching session. In that case you’d want to separate stretching from jelqing. Maybe a helacious stretch session in the AM, followed by tractionwrapping, then a PM jelqing session. I would still say an ADS is your best bet.
When you get some length on that thing, THEN go for your girth routines of heavy squeezing and so forth. Jelqing will give you girth, but nowhere near what squeezing will do. Make sure your jelqing is heavy duty and you feel it a bit in your susp. lig towards the end of the session. Again, work up to that level.
Hope that gives you some options. Don’t give up - it’s worth it! And the level of confidence boost you’ll receive (making the assumption that could be an issue for you) will be WAY more beneficial than just the sexual bonus. ;)
-Buster