Too small to stretch?

Title says it all. I’ve got the unfortunate case of having a penis that’s almost impossible to stretch when it’s flaccid. Erect, I’m 5 and something but flaccid.. It’s like a bean. Most of you won’t know the struggle but it’s pretty painful trying to pull it and stretch it sideways, my hand slips out after max 5 seconds. A guy on here suggested I roll some toilet paper over it but I found that made zero change to me, my hand just keeps slipping away. Any solutions? :(

Semi erect maybe? Like 70%..?

It sounds like you’re fighting turtling. Try going commando and getting a heat source.

Hi.

Try stealth for men.
It won’t make it bigger but it will help get you used to some tension. Mine got more elastic/stretchy.

Maybe Stretch only downward or straight out, if it’s not painful. Forget sideways. Pain is bad… if you feel pain, stop.

If stretching is not working for you, don’t do it. There is no rule that says you must. Concentrate on Jelqing, with a semi you have more than enough length to jelq. Jelqing is the bread & butter of PE. :)

I think as long as you have a glans, you can stretch. I had to go through some trial and error to get my grip but now I think I’ve got it. I grip from 0.25-0.5” behind the glans/frenulum using a combination of two hands. I do use a little chalk to help my fingertips grip. I have a tiny bit of skin under my grip but only enough not to put tension on the attachment area between the glans and the shaft. I think that area is too delicate. But I don’t have trouble with skin sliding over the head or anything.

At first, without feeling the skin stretch like I used to, I didn’t think this stretch was doing anything. But after getting comfortable applying a little more pressure on this grip just behind the glans, I feel a totally different stretch. It’s not that stinging skin stretch, it’s definitely a stretch in the actual penis.

I had a really small flaccid before I started a few months ago. Maybe more glans showing than shaft a lot of times. And about 5 something erect as well. After a few months PE, even though I was doing some things wrong in the beginning, I have a much better flaccid hang. I think I measured my first gain in BPEL yesterday but I am not sure I was pressing the base hard enough in my earlier measurements.

Thanks for all the replies. By pain, I didn’t mean physical pain. I meant mental pain, I’m really frustrated mentally because I discovered PE like 2 months ago and still can’t properly start, I get super frustrated when I attempt to do it and something like that happens and I just leave it for another day

Definitely can understand that. You just need to keep in mind that this is a marathon. Nothing is going to happen quickly. Nothing permanent at least.

I still think you’d get a bit more to work with if you use a heat pad before hand. I never liked the rice sock, to be honest.

It will loosen up the tissues and make them more ready to be stretched. Focus on researching through this forum. I had a hard time at first as well, but the more I read the more effective I’m doing things.

It’s OK it is just part of the learning curve. I think if you keep doing research, and trial and error, you will find your way through it. Maybe set a smaller goal, like get a ruler and aim to stretch it 1/8” or 1/4” further, maybe 1/2”, just pick something doable but sustainable. And hold it that far out for a few sets of 15-30 seconds. It’s just a suggestion or a way of looking at things. To help you get a feeling of achievement, instead of frustration. Also, maybe pick easier angles to focus on, like straight down or straight out.

Here would be an example. My bone-pressed, not stretched flaccid length was 4”. I kept the ruler in place and stretched my flaccid out to 4 3/4” and held for 30 seconds, for 3 sets. The next time I stretched it out to 4 7/8” for 3 sets of 30 seconds. That would be one set. I’m not saying it’s the best way to do PE, but it gives you something measurable, that you can complete. Eventually you will probably want to learn more techniques. But it’s just a building block.

Also its important to relax your pelvic floor when you stretch. Sometimes when I stretch I find myself tensing up. I can see my balls actually scrunch up. So I do a relaxing thing and then my balls drop all the way back down. When you are stretching anything it makes a difference if you relax or tense it.