Originally Posted by a-unit
It would seem that some are uncomfortable with a young man’s success. Good for you son, just be careful with your victory. Most people here admire your achievement, but in the real world people despise the exceptional and will plan to tear you down because of it.
Well, a-unit is doing his part here on Thunder’s Place and speaking for everyone - or at least most people.
Thing is, we have so many thousands of members that I think there’s a good chance he’s not, in fact, speaking for most people. He’d be safer therefore if he just spoke for himself and let people agree with him - or not.
What I see going on here isn’t anyone being uncomfortable or even seeking to tear anyone down. Rather it’s the same thing goes on any time someone comes here and posts statistics that are on the high end of the high end with a vague story about the PE process that was used: skepticism.
The other thing is, there are certain rules here. If you blow them off, or pretend they aren’t important, you are in effect saying that you don’t think the rules apply to you; but here’s the thing with that: if you don’t want the rules to apply to you, then maybe you don’t really want to be a member here.
Originally Posted by tytn
i started young, i don’t know is that helps… i read that jelqing was from an old Arabic culture and boy started doing it during puberty
Where did you read this?
Originally Posted by tytn
i first started i was doing 30+ mins jelqing at the hardest erection i could. nothing else. now i only do 20+ mins at as hard as i can go 3 second strokes. in the bath is the best idea i think because it really relaxes you . recently i started pumping routinely and did gain girth but i gave it up due to to many injury’s
So… you did fully erect jelqs for 30 minutes at a time, but when you started pumping you decided to give up due to injury? That’s pretty weird. While you can certainly hurt yourself with a pump, it’s also pretty easy to be safe with one.
What sort of pumping technique did you employ? How long? How much pressure? How many sets? Any routine in between sets?
What was the injury? How long did it take to recover?
When you say “20 mins as hard as I can go 3 second strokes” are we to assume this is with a full erection and “hard as I can go” means you applying the hardest pressure you can?
Originally Posted by tytn
i cant remember what it is called exactly but i do the slinky thing for girth as long as i can. it hurts my grip because i cant get my hands to meet around the base so i really have to squeeze.
It seems to me if you’re doing jelqs at 100% erection levels that is as much a girth exercise as anything. It really amounts to almost a manual form of clamping, given the pressures of involved; 100% erection is a fair amount of internal pressure and then manual external pressure - and for 20 or 30 minutes. That’s a lot of pressure.
Originally Posted by whynotbig
Trust me You do not need any more, If you search any where you want, Your size is satisfying but not ideal, Because ideal is less then 7, They may enjoy it, But they will feel pain, And not all girls love pain, You know what i mean, So by time if you go back to 6.5 maintain it , because its ideal, Many guys want to go extremely big, For his mind not his partner, Because we always think we are small, No matter what, So never do anything with it, Just maintain now, And am really happy for you, :) you are HUNG NOW :D Good luck
whynotbig I have to say you have a good attitude and a great spirit.
I would caution you, however, on this concept of the ‘ideal size’. There really isn’t one, or least not in the way that you seem to have understood. Let me see if I can share my perspective.
First of all, we have to define what we mean by ‘ideal’. The idea that there is some perfect size for a penis that is going to be universally satisfying to any and all - is a myth.
The reason this is so is that sex is a whole lot more than insert tab A into slot B. Sex has to do with how people’s minds and emotions combine by way of a physical expression. While the mechanics of size are involved and are certainly important, it is only to a certain degree.
For the sake of argument, let’s assume the sex we’re talking talking about is heterosexual in nature. Just as there are ranges of size and dimension with us, so too is there a range for the women we might be involved with. So if it were just mechanics, which it isn’t, there would be a pretty wide range of specifics right there.
Over all, sex is highly individual. In fact, you can have sex with several different people, all with same statistics with regard to size and still… each one on one experience will be unique.
tytn can certainly have a satisfying sex life with a whole variety of women with his stated size. No question. Would there be differences in the way that satisfaction is expressed if those statistics turned out to be different? Absolutely. So would he be able to satisfy folks with a smaller unit? Sure he could.
You can have any size and be a lousy lay, just the same as you can have any size and be a world class lover.
All size will do is dictate some of the mechanics of the act (or acts), it will not determine whether the experience is worth a damn for the people involved.
That depends a whole lot more on something that you have demonstrated you already have: a good attitude - if you add that to a desire to please and a careful attention to your partner then the potential to be a good lover - even a great lover is quite high.
It’s true we all have personal tastes. I think of myself when it comes to the size and shape of women I find appealing, regardless of my ‘ideal’ I have certainly had a few experiences of a woman with a perfect body being a terrible lay and more than a woman or two who were less visually appealing ending up being very satisfying indeed. Go figure.
Anyway, I think you get my point.
I don’t think you meant to, but you made it sound a little like tytn’s stuck with a dick that’s too big to be 100% satisfying. Whatever you meant, bottom line: I don’t think that’s true.
No matter how big or small he is. Different sizes only dictate a need for differences of technique, they do not lock you in to be satisfying or not satisfying. I’d agree that, given the size he’s shared with us, he’s plenty big. Big enough so that his size will require that he be more careful and go slower with a majority of women, but assuming he has one that likes him… they’ll adapt to each other. Or at least we hope they will. :leftie:
You get me?