Very little gains in several years and my psychological issues

I am quite small, and totally out of my mind since I really feel like I’ll never be a good lover with a 5.6” EL, 4.7” EG penis.

I do know that is untrue and IF ONLY I would believe in myself, I could make women happy. But I don’t, and then I fuck as an inept.
Whenever my lady is increasing her pleasure and moaning and screaming, I do start *thinking* and I either lose my erection or cum. In both situations I am unhappy with the result.
I always see sex as a performance, never as something to enjoy.

Having a bigger penis would help.

My penis was actually smaller when I started all this about TEN YEARS ago, dedicating several months at a time to PE. It was 5.3” EL, never measured girth back then.
Now, being that tad bigger than when I started helps; it really does, but I want more.

I tried several routines, consistently.
I am really envious of those gaining about one inch in a few months.

Why isn’t that my destiny as well?
Why can’t I deserve a normal penis?

Why can’t I deserve an happy life?

You already have more than enough to please a woman. What you’ve written indicates this is true. Enjoy having sex and when she begins to moan remember you are the one giving her pleasure with your perfectly normal penis size.

What does your current routine look like? Have you tried using constant heat?

Surely something is off. If you give to your penis the right stimulation, you will grow, no matter what. Since PE has billions of possible combinations, for some the sucess could take a while.

About their sucess and growth, you should take it as motivation. They are telling you that PE works, just like has been reported in those last 20 or more years. Would be sad if nobody else gained with it.

You can change your destiny if you want. If you want a bigger penis, you can have it.

Here you have all the tools and support to reach it.

Feel free to PM me, if you want to chat.

Don’t give up.

Thank you both.

More than my penis, I would love - I do need! - To change my mind. I am seeing a therapist, without stunning results so far. But it’s less than one month.

Thanks.

Your current penis size is quite adequate for having sex with women. Do you allow your self esteem to be determined by your penis or is there something else causing that problem?

Does anyone ever told you that you have small penis?

Nobody ever told me so and hey, “how lack”, my penis is not “quite adequate” it’s perfectly fine. She came once and wonderfully. So it’s all in my darn sick head.

I am now following this routine.
Stretching 5 minutes down, 5 minutes straight out, 5 minutes up.

A hundred jelqs if I can relax enough to get a partial erection. Porn makes me sad rather than excited nowadays.

I think your problem is same like me but FYI my penis is smaller than you and I feel really bad.. Porn also make me sad, when I watch it I feel like they insulting me with their big penis.. But I know I can do this and achieve my goal.

Have you considered hanging ? It’s the only thing that worked for me.

I am sure you ‘ll get over it. How old are you?

As for that thing with the woman climaxing have sex with the music on. That will take care of it. Focus on the music.

Penis size is fine.

I’m to new to PE to comment about growth but my resolve the one that I know will keep me going is the fact that I view this as a total make over.

Not just penis wise I’m getting fit losing weight yes it is to get rid of fat pad but the goal is to change how people look at me and how women will feel with me not just sex.

Try to stay positive and think about general health, stronger erections and if it gets bigger welcome but that does not mean slacking just enjoying the ride.

Thanks all. I am seeing a psychologist now since my issues are mostly mental rather than physical. A friend of mine has a dick of 4.5”. “I fuck as it were 7” “, he says. And he delivers plenty of satisfactions to ladies.

Mine is 5.5 and I fuck as it were 3”. With no pleasure for none.

Our biggest power is in our freaking brain.

Thanks all for the tips. I will also consider hanging, although I’d try with a phallosan clone first.
Johny2126, if you feel like chatting, let’s do that. I thing we could sincerely empathize since we share a big issue - smaller than average dick, and plenty of anxieties.

It is mental. You are gonna be fine. Just talk about it with an expert. Go to a psychologist. Nothing wrong with that.

5.5 is actually above average in latest studies. They put average in 5.1-5.3, depending.

I’m start doing PE consistently now since I started last month but doesn’t have any gains because doing it too light and inconsistent.